Ken pretty muched summed up the story of the whole debate. I hope that nobody's feelings were hurt by the commments that I made which sparked this in the first place , and if anyone feels wrongly done by I apologise. Ken contacted me so we could sort this out and I realised that we are arguing over nothing and i've been an idiot.
He is a great ambassador to the members and leaders of his site in the way he made the first move to apologise and i've found that he is a really great guy in out discussions , and i'm sure the people i've annoyed are awesome people to, which i'm sure i'll find when I get to know you all.
As I have said , I apologise for my wrong doing and I hope you can forgive me.
Thanks for the place in the team , i'll do my best =D.