GirlFriend ...

[Luke]

Okay , I really like this girl , but I hardly see each other anymore too make it worst my best friend likes her and I went out with her a few years ago , But I really like her , She always tell's me that she wish she had a boyfriend like me. What should i do?

[hotmr2]

simple kiddo

ask her out asap and be the first 

[GhoSt]

wat bout ur old gf? did u break up?

[Luke]

wat bout ur old gf? did u break up?

Yus about a month ago

[ProperBritish]

lol i have a situation at the moment

i like my friend's girlfriend, have done since before they were going out, but i didn't know he liked her until he asked her out.

he asked her out 1 week after he dumped someone else, i call that unfair on his ex.

i dunno what to do, timing isn't my forte

[tmandt]

if she said she wants a bf like you say back to her why cant it be me? simple

[VoX]

@ Luke

I'd be flat out and explain your feelings to her. If she understands you have to respect her decision regardless of what it is. Its better to explain yourself than keep those feelings bottled up and then the chance goes away.

@ ProperBritish

I highly doubt your friend really likes this girl as much as you do. Rebound etc. relationships usually don't last long or work for that fact. If the girl you like is in fact decent then she will probably notice this. I'd say waiting it out would be a good choice because your friend is involved. If it gets to a point where they neither obviously like each other that's when you can intervene.

[Reaper]

@ ProperBritish

I highly doubt your friend really likes this girl as much as you do. Rebound etc. relationships usually don't last long or work for that fact. If the girl you like is in fact decent then she will probably notice this. I'd say waiting it out would be a good choice because your friend is involved. If it gets to a point where they neither obviously like each other that's when you can intervene.

Bros before hoes man,  any girl your friend dumps is ok, but if they mutually break up/she breaks it off... untouchable for AT LEAST a few months

[ryan0]

to luke:
When she says she wants to have a boyfriend like you,if you say "why not?" it comes across as creepy,females are indecisive (no offence any females reading this,which is very unlikely).Take her out on a date something like a movie which doesn't cost much (I've made mistakes like bringing them to a club,buying them drinks etc. only for them to tell me they wanna be friends).On the date hold out your arm/elbow inviting her to put her arm in yours so they feel comfortable in close contact with you,and remember to do it confidently.If all goes well ask her out,whatever you do ask her out BEFORE you make out with her,if you do it after it'll be very very awkward.Be a charmer,make subtle compliments
me:"wow you look gorgeous tonight"
subject"omg no I don't"
me"had me fooled XD"
If she says yes,you've done it!If she says no then she probably wasn't right for you anyways.
This has worked for me on many occasions/girlfriends,if done right it'll be impossible for them to say no XD

lol i have a situation at the moment

i like my friend's girlfriend, have done since before they were going out, but i didn't know he liked her until he asked her out.

he asked her out 1 week after he dumped someone else, i call that unfair on his ex.

i dunno what to do, timing isn't my forte

Baaaaaaad baaaaaad territory,if you like her you should have asked her out when you realised that you liked her,it's only now that she's taken that you want her more.

[PspKicks316]

tl;dr
Ask her out

[ProperBritish]

hmm im letting time take it's course tbh, best idea. ive heard things for them ain't good so fingers crossed ^^. if they end it, im giving it a cooldown period, before i try my luck.

[Luke]

I want to ask her out , But she hasn't been on msn for 3 days  I'm so impatience

[PspKicks316]

I want to ask her out , But she hasn't been on msn for 3 days  I'm so impatience

You're joking right?
Seriously?
If you ask her out over a messenger like that I'll come to your house an punch you in the face bud.

-_-*

Do it in person.

[ProperBritish]

there is a time an place

MSN is NOT it.

[H-Sauce]

2 reasons not to do it on msn.

1. MSN isn't the place to do it

2. Asking in person shows more confidence

Trust me, although these were normal childhood relationships, I can tell you when asked in person it makes the relationship last a lot longer.

[802Chives]

I agree never do anything like asking out or breaking up on the internets.

And back to the original post about she said she wishes she could date someone like you.  It pretty much means that she wants someone like you, just not you for whatever reason.  Trust me I have been there.  However it isn't all bad tho, you are almost in, you just need to put more work into it.

I suggest doing some activities as friends and build a stronger relationship.  Don't worry about dating and whos boyfriend and girlfriend, it all about the relationship, not what you call it.  But make it clear that you are interested and when you do hang out act how a boyfriend would and not like just a friend.  Be polite, open doors, buy little treats, pay for dinner ect. ect.  And most of all be cool and don't get all wrapped up with titles and stuff. Get wraped up with a relationship instead.

[Alien_X]

Yeah..

And don't send them gym membership coupons..Man I Didn't think that one through.

 

[Luke]

but I hardly see each other anymore

[WatIis]

Wow... Im sorry, but wow... The interweb for girlfriend questions? And on a PSP modding site?  get a life.


Reading that actually did make me cry of laughter.

[VoX]

Wow... Im sorry, but wow... The interweb for girlfriend questions? And on a PSP modding site?  get a life.


Reading that actually did make me cry of laughter.

Doesn't make me laugh, He's just asking a community that I assume he's been on for a long time.

[bustinthejustin]

Yeah... When you're on a forum for long enough, the community becomes your friend. A place to talk to people. That's like saying "lololololol you asked your friends about a relationship problem!"

If you don't like it, gtfo.

[GhoSt]

Wow... Im sorry, but wow... The interweb for girlfriend questions? And on a PSP modding site?  get a life.


Reading that actually did make me cry of laughter.

recarnis is right, luke is asking this place because he trusts us, and he has been here a while. The people on this site are real, and have real lives.

[hotmr2]

i agree  with what others said about asking over the msn is not the place.

i'd perfer it in person eye to eye to know they mean it etc . from my experiences

and good luck ..... try not to mumble  

[Luke]

Wow... Im sorry, but wow... The interweb for girlfriend questions? And on a PSP modding site?  get a life.


Reading that actually did make me cry of laughter.

1. Ive been on this site for way longer then you buddy .

2. This site is more then a Psp modding site

3. This is the spam section

4. The term Get a life is really starting to bug me

[PspKicks316]

Yeah..

And don't send them gym membership coupons..Man I Didn't think that one through.

 

I laughed.
Really hard.
That's great man

Wow... Im sorry, but wow... The interweb for girlfriend questions? And on a PSP modding site?  get a life.


Reading that actually did make me cry of laughter.

I have but 1 small question for you.
What the hell is wrong with you?

[bustinthejustin]

Obviously watiis isn't going to last long around here without getting slammed by every single person here ... seriously change your attitude before you get e-pwned by the uber awesome people of Acidmods.

[VoX]

The one thing I don't get is how Luke's asking about a girl in real life and he's saying get a life.

[bustinthejustin]

Lol good point. The only reason you would have to say "get a life" would be if he was asking for a girlfriend over the internet, which isn't the case here.