Author Topic: why? (Read 7384 times)

Kilokk · « **on:** March 19, 2009, 12:11:54 AM »

why do people have to die before there time? why do people kill themselves? why did my friend kill himself over my sister?

3 questions i am pondering at the moment

bustinthejustin · « **Reply #1 on:** March 19, 2009, 12:14:18 AM »

What happened!

PsychoticWolf · « **Reply #2 on:** March 19, 2009, 12:18:49 AM »

1. There is no such thing as before there time.
2. People kill them selves because they are cowards that can't stand living.
3. Some people just can get a grip.

~:Dhruv:~ · « **Reply #3 on:** March 19, 2009, 12:30:15 AM »

wtf ! A guy killed himself over ur sis ? Such people really need to get a grip on reality. I've realised the hard way. Dude sometimes things get really hard n difficult to bear. Its in times like these that death seems like a very viable option.

Kilokk · « **Reply #4 on:** March 19, 2009, 12:47:22 AM »

Quote from: PsychoticWolf on March 19, 2009, 12:18:49 AM

1. There is no such thing as before there time.
2. People kill them selves because they are cowards that can't stand living.
3. Some people just can get a grip.

thanks... thats what i need right now... he hasnt been dead 3 hours yet... though i guess i cant blame you... thats what i think as well...

@justin my sister and her bf broke up, she got drunk last friday and made out with him, on MY bed no less, then they were talking on the phone earlier (bout 1 am est) about how she wanted to just be friends and she heard him choking and drop the phone... she and her... bf (dont know if they are together again or not) went to see if he was ok and they found him hanging in his garage...

budgray19 · « **Reply #5 on:** March 19, 2009, 01:00:54 AM »

Quote from: Kilokk on March 19, 2009, 12:47:22 AM

thanks... thats what i need right now... he hasnt been dead 3 hours yet... though i guess i cant blame you... thats what i think as well...

@justin my sister and her bf broke up, she got drunk last friday and made out with him, on MY bed no less, then they were talking on the phone earlier (bout 1 am est) about how she wanted to just be friends and she heard him choking and drop the phone... she and her... bf (dont know if they are together again or not) went to see if he was ok and they found him hanging in his garage...

it dosnt soundlike he tho that one threw
she was on the phone
howlong where they going out?
age ect.

Kilokk · « **Reply #6 on:** March 19, 2009, 01:04:35 AM »

they were never actually dating... he loved her... he was 19 she was 20... i dont think he thought about it at all... he was kinda like the guy on the left

he would pick you up when you were down...

budgray19 · « **Reply #7 on:** March 19, 2009, 01:14:33 AM »

yea but this guy seems like he had problems or he was shallow
i am for one of thoskinda guy and i know that theres otehrs out there and dont go hangin my self
i hope ur sis dont think its her fault

~:Dhruv:~ · « **Reply #8 on:** March 19, 2009, 01:24:07 AM »

i think you should just go n talk it out with your sister that it isnt her fault or anything. stuff like this can have a very negative impact.........

PsychoticWolf · « **Reply #9 on:** March 19, 2009, 01:34:18 AM »

What I said may seem harsh. But the world is a harsh place, Its Better to learn it now then later. Im sorry you lost a friend. I have to lost a close friend also. Tho its not anyones fault. all you can do now is comfort his family and your sister. Since you were his friend.

~:Dhruv:~ · « **Reply #10 on:** March 19, 2009, 01:47:56 AM »

true, you need to just calm down a bit. Go comfort ur sister and the guy's family. I lost a close friend this february. She committed suicide, so i know how it feels.

Kilokk · « **Reply #11 on:** March 19, 2009, 01:52:33 AM »

yeah... all his friends (bout 20) are comin over to be together... ive never met his family... didnt know him more than a month but he was a great friend... he was the go to guy... i was gonna teach him how to play guitar... he learned sweet home alabama in about 6 minutes... he was so excited to have learned how to play...

~:Dhruv:~ · « **Reply #12 on:** March 19, 2009, 01:55:09 AM »

now ur making me feel sad too. Bringing back memories of my lost friend..... I really think you should go n meet his family once.

Kilokk · « **Reply #13 on:** March 19, 2009, 02:31:08 AM »

id like to... from what my sister said they arent doing well... but i dont think they want to see anyone right now...

~:Dhruv:~ · « **Reply #14 on:** March 19, 2009, 02:35:07 AM »

k. In that case , just give them some time. How's ur sister taking this though ? Hope she's not feeling guilty or anything......

Kilokk · « **Reply #15 on:** March 19, 2009, 03:14:31 AM »

she is admiting herself to a mental institute sometime today or tomorrow... she has suicidal tendancies...

~:Dhruv:~ · « **Reply #16 on:** March 19, 2009, 03:18:42 AM »

!!! Because of this incident or otherwise. Man, i've gone down that road..... Never again.

Kilokk · « **Reply #17 on:** March 19, 2009, 03:36:34 AM »

she has been on the brink many times...

SN!P3R · « **Reply #18 on:** March 19, 2009, 05:03:05 AM »

has anyone noticed that 90% of the post here are by news team members?

~:Dhruv:~ · « **Reply #19 on:** March 19, 2009, 05:16:17 AM »

yeah thats true, wierd huh ?

Kilokk · « **Reply #20 on:** March 19, 2009, 05:23:26 AM »

cause news team has open enrollment...

~:Dhruv:~ · « **Reply #21 on:** March 19, 2009, 05:25:00 AM »

yeah, i guess so. What does it take to become a mod though ? Just asking

Kilokk · « **Reply #22 on:** March 19, 2009, 05:29:08 AM »

not asking about it... unspoken rule... be helpful, and follow the rules

~:Dhruv:~ · « **Reply #23 on:** March 19, 2009, 05:33:40 AM »

ok ! Thanks won't mention it again

802Chives · « **Reply #24 on:** March 19, 2009, 05:56:53 AM »

Sorry to hear about your friend. my cousin killed himself 3 yrs ago, it was so unbelievably selfish that you cant help to be both sad and angry. Hang in there the anger will subside and sadness will take over eventually.

Suicide is a permanent solution for a temporary problem. Like I said in the tatoo post for the several years after you leave highschool your world will change, sometimes things can seem dire, but it will never be so bad that life after that time isnt worth living. Suicide is selfish, it is the easy way out. IMHO most people think that people will feel sorry if they off themselves, which is the exact opposite emotion that suicide provokes.

I hope that our members realize that our community is here for you, and if you ever have these feelings it is natural and you need to deal with them cuz if you push them aside you may end up with a permanent solution.

~:Dhruv:~ · « **Reply #25 on:** March 19, 2009, 06:02:20 AM »

well said chives........... It really is a very selfish thing to do..............

Kilokk · « **Reply #26 on:** March 19, 2009, 06:10:05 AM »

thanks chives that is good to know ^_^ nice to know that at least SOMEONE is there for us if we have these feelings ^_^

selfish yes... stupid yes... angering yes... and unfortunately, being a christian, i dont believe he will have a happy afterlife either... :censored:ty day... :censored:tttty day...

Kilokk · « **Reply #27 on:** March 19, 2009, 08:45:53 AM »

you know... i just realized that i shouldve called 911... i couldve saved him... wtf is wrong with me... forgetting something that has been etched in my brain for about 15 years...

~:Dhruv:~ · « **Reply #28 on:** March 19, 2009, 09:00:18 AM »

but you didn't know , did you ?

Kilokk · « **Reply #29 on:** March 19, 2009, 09:02:38 AM »

i did know... my sister came downstairs crying cuz he hung himself while on the phone wit her... we couldve called 911...

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