Author Topic: I can't talk to girls for some reason. (Read 6444 times)

Luke · « **on:** July 14, 2009, 04:09:40 AM »

Like these girls are some of my best friends.
and
Luke 21:01 Hey
Megan 21:02 hey
Megan 21:03 what you doing?
Luke 21:03 uhh, not much just listening to music..
Luke 21:03 you ?
Megan 21:03 cool
Megan 21:03 yeah nothing much
Luke 21:04 Ohk, Sorry I didn't reply before I forgot to sign off.
Megan 21:04 Haha, It's ok.

Thats all we say I mean like I just can't talk to girls I don't know what to say.. etc

Modded Matt · « **Reply #1 on:** July 14, 2009, 04:41:34 AM »

talk to her like she is me, just dont say anything rude LOL dont think of her as a girl, think of her as a person. to be honest after hearing my wife and some of her friends talk the girls are worse than the guys LOL, they are just descrete with it where as we are open.

like I said she is a person, not a girl.

tmandt · « **Reply #2 on:** July 14, 2009, 07:30:41 AM »

happens to me sometimes. :\ just girls i dont click with lol.

ryan0 · « **Reply #3 on:** July 14, 2009, 08:26:31 AM »

You gotta take the piss out of em a little,but be careful,there's a very fine line.

Example:

me: "are you naturally blonde?"
her: "nope"
me: "didn't think so"

Rory · « **Reply #4 on:** July 14, 2009, 11:57:01 AM »

Quote from: ryan0 on July 14, 2009, 08:26:31 AM

You gotta take the piss out of em a little,but be careful,there's a very fine line.

Example:

me: "are you naturally blonde?"
her: "nope"
me: "didn't think so"

Then again, some girls like having the piss taken...
I got a little drunk and started calling the host (of a little get together) a dizzy cow like all night. Then went to her, put my arm round her and... Well lets say the night was fun :P. Usually girls alot older that find that attractive though. I still don't see how it works.

I thought I couldn't talk to girls. If you totally run out of ideas. Just play a little game. Where you take it in turns to ask questions. Which the other person must answer. You get to know alot about chicks that way.

Modded Matt · « **Reply #5 on:** July 14, 2009, 12:03:50 PM »

Quote from: Rory on July 14, 2009, 11:57:01 AM

I still don't see how it works.

I dont think we as men are suposed to understand how it works. just go with it. dont be scared, whats the worst she can do? bite???hey hey hey that might not be bad.

Jumbo · « **Reply #6 on:** July 14, 2009, 12:10:40 PM »

Its not if she bites, but where

bustinthejustin · « **Reply #7 on:** July 14, 2009, 12:14:23 PM »

LOL... Don't worry, my convos with guys last a hell of a lot shorter. But it really depends on the girl... If they trust you, they can talk to you all friggin' night. If not, my convos usually stop within 5 minutes.

.MadX · « **Reply #8 on:** July 14, 2009, 01:14:11 PM »

LOL I feel sorry for you!

This is what I do:
Me:

you
Her: YOu know what just go

yourself
Me: haaa im just kinding
Her: *leaves*

JK..

ryan0 · « **Reply #9 on:** July 14, 2009, 01:47:07 PM »

Quote from: .MadX on July 14, 2009, 01:14:11 PM

LOL I feel sorry for you!

This is what I do:
Me: you
Her: YOu know what just go yourself
Me: haaa im just kinding
Her: *leaves*

JK..

I lol'd

It's all about sattire,whatever the situation is,make it funny!
Heres something I pulled a little earlier over MSN

Me:So......you come here often :P
Her: :L you're funny

Wit takes time to develop,you just gotta go for it sometime,practice makes perfect.
I used to be

with girls,but over time I have become more and more comfortable and wittier while talking to them.
Also try and make them feel a little insecure,but just a little!
And remember,even if a girl is fugly,girls always have friends who are girls,and those friends have more friends,it's all about making connections!

Case and point (that's me by the way):

Let's just say I had some "Private,alone time" with the girl on the right,after being introduced to her by the fugly girl on the left!

alentris · « **Reply #10 on:** July 14, 2009, 01:56:52 PM »

ryan0... Ladies man...

jacobia jacob · « **Reply #11 on:** July 14, 2009, 01:58:09 PM »

Quote from: Rory on July 14, 2009, 11:57:01 AM

If you totally run out of ideas. Just play a little game. Where you take it in turns to ask questions. Which the other person must answer. You get to know alot about chicks that way.

that's called questions. it works better over aim/msn or texting. you gotta be really bold with the questions or it can get boring. if you can get it going though it can keep you talking for hours.

Quote from: ryan0 on July 14, 2009, 01:47:07 PM

It's all about sattire,whatever the situation is,make it funny!
Heres something I pulled a little earlier over MSN

Me:So......you come here often :P
Her: :L you're funny

Wit takes time to develop,you just gotta go for it sometime,practice makes perfect.
I used to be with girls,but over time I have become more and more comfortable and wittier while talking to them.
Also try and make them feel a little insecure,but just a little!
And remember,even if a girl is fugly,girls always have friends who are girls,and those friends have more friends,it's all about making connections!

see, hes got technique. do that!

PspKicks316 · « **Reply #12 on:** July 14, 2009, 02:02:42 PM »

Quote from: jacobia jacob on July 14, 2009, 01:58:09 PM

that's called questions. it works better over aim/msn or texting. you gotta be really bold with the questions or it can get boring. if you can get it going though it can keep you talking for hours.

Yeah, that's the question game, but it's based on sexual questions...not regular everyday boring ones.

.MadX · « **Reply #13 on:** July 14, 2009, 02:22:36 PM »

my ebay username is ladiesman217 (from transformers). I'm funny so attitude-less chicks come to me all the time.

BTW RYAN0, those chicks are dude lol goth? emo-ish...ugly! Bet you can get better ones.

ryan0 · « **Reply #14 on:** July 14, 2009, 02:27:40 PM »

I got a killer one for you guys:

Me: So what's your favourite food
Her: I dunno ice cream
Me: What flavour may I ask?
Her: Umm chocolate
Me: Eww chocolate ice cream is disgusting!What's your favourite movie
Her: Atonement
Me: The final question.......my place or yours?

You can take that as far as you like

Quote from: .MadX on July 14, 2009, 02:22:36 PM

BTW RYAN0, those chicks are dude lol goth? emo-ish...ugly! Bet you can get better ones.

The chick on the left is,but if you seen the girl on the right in real life she is smokin' hot xD

StealthedHunter · « **Reply #15 on:** July 14, 2009, 05:17:09 PM »

i think the one on the right looks pretty hot in the picture too.

heres mine:

Me: Hey wassup
Her: Nothin u
Me: nothin just choadin around
Her: hahaha. LETS %&$#

True story ^^^

ok maybe just the first 3 lines

Modded Matt · « **Reply #16 on:** July 14, 2009, 06:14:36 PM »

you guys want to he something funny? this is me an my wife when we first met:

(complete strangers, at an amusmnt park)

eye contact at a soda vendor, girls standing around lockers, I approach,

ME: hey I just wated to ask if you knew how georgious you were?
her: yes, I know....*turn around and walk away and laugh.*

me, hurt pride, but oh well!!
we met again out of compete coincedence at a party a week later with friends,

her: I remember you *laugh*, srry for being so :censored:y
me: no problem, *walk away*

me go talk to other ladies,and just having good time, see her looking every now and again, play it cool.. near end of the night, aproach again and ask

Me: so would you like to go out some time so u can make it up to me?
her: laugh smile sure call me heres the number.

pride restored!! call two days later and she hasent left, been married ten years almost.

moral:
just go for it it relly doesnt matter if she shoots you down, you never know, she may come back or she may not, but you tried, and without that nothing is posible.
note:
it all stars with eye contact, alot of shy people, or atleast people with les confidance look away quick upon eye contact. this is no good. make the eye contact, the yes say alot!! one thing I do is if eye contact was made, I lift my eye brows and smile, and then look away, dont be crepy, but make sure she knows you were looking, tyipically she will look away and if she looks back quickly its on!! go talk to her.

.MadX · « **Reply #17 on:** July 14, 2009, 06:28:35 PM »

Quote from: StealthedHunter on July 14, 2009, 05:17:09 PM

i think the one on the right looks pretty hot in the picture too.

heres mine:

Me: Hey wassup
Her: Nothin u
Me: nothin just choadin around
Her: hahaha. LETS %&$#

True story ^^^

ok maybe just the first 3 lines

lol I LMAO ed

@ryan - Maybe the one on right. I didn't look that the pic closely.....

PhenomenalDesigns · « **Reply #18 on:** July 16, 2009, 09:30:18 AM »

Quote from: modded matt on July 14, 2009, 06:14:36 PM

you guys want to he something funny? this is me an my wife when we first met:

(complete strangers, at an amusmnt park)

eye contact at a soda vendor, girls standing around lockers, I approach,

ME: hey I just wated to ask if you knew how georgious you were?
her: yes, I know....*turn around and walk away and laugh.*

me, hurt pride, but oh well!!
we met again out of compete coincedence at a party a week later with friends,

her: I remember you *laugh*, srry for being so :censored:y
me: no problem, *walk away*

me go talk to other ladies,and just having good time, see her looking every now and again, play it cool.. near end of the night, aproach again and ask

Me: so would you like to go out some time so u can make it up to me?
her: laugh smile sure call me heres the number.

pride restored!! call two days later and she hasent left, been married ten years almost.

moral:
just go for it it relly doesnt matter if she shoots you down, you never know, she may come back or she may not, but you tried, and without that nothing is posible.
note:
it all stars with eye contact, alot of shy people, or atleast people with les confidance look away quick upon eye contact. this is no good. make the eye contact, the yes say alot!! one thing I do is if eye contact was made, I lift my eye brows and smile, and then look away, dont be crepy, but make sure she knows you were looking, tyipically she will look away and if she looks back quickly its on!! go talk to her.

I will remember that, as me and my friends are going thorpe park (Huge theme park in UK) tommorow to score some, chicks

EverGREEN · « **Reply #19 on:** July 19, 2009, 03:22:16 PM »

Consider yourself lucky. I don't know about you lot. but everytime I log on msn, I get about 20 girls asking me the same god damn thing.
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[07/03/09 23:13:06 ] -*-/Dane\-*- : hi
[07/03/09 23:13:12 ] [c=32]- KayleighhLouiseeClarkee' [/c] : you ok
[07/03/09 23:13:21 ] -*-/Dane\-*- : yea im fine
[07/03/09 23:13:23 ] -*-/Dane\-*- : wbu

[07/07/09 17:20:05 ] [c=9]- Kayleiighh [/c] : Heyy
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[07/07/09 17:20:15 ] [c=9]- Kayleiighh [/c] : Youu Orightt . ?
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[07/03/09 19:43:35 ] -*-/Dane\-*- : fine wbu

I have no idea why, but they seem obsessed with how I am

VoX · « **Reply #20 on:** July 19, 2009, 03:31:07 PM »

Quote from: EverGREEN on July 19, 2009, 03:22:16 PM

Consider yourself lucky. I don't know about you lot. but everytime I log on msn, I get about 20 girls asking me the same god damn thing.

I have no idea why, but they seem obsessed with how I am

Looks like we have ourselves a popular kid. GET HIM FELLAS

bustinthejustin · « **Reply #21 on:** July 19, 2009, 03:33:09 PM »

lmao why would they ask "are you ok"...?

Quote from: VoX on July 19, 2009, 03:31:07 PM

Looks like we have ourselves a popular kid. GET HIM FELLAS

Wait what the hell? Ur right! Ban hammer pl0x!

EverGREEN · « **Reply #22 on:** July 19, 2009, 03:48:28 PM »

No, they are just freaks... And most of them goto a different school.

And I have no idea why they ask me that, They just like asking it.

Jumbo · « **Reply #23 on:** July 19, 2009, 03:49:07 PM »

Quote from: bustinthejustin on July 19, 2009, 03:33:09 PM

lmao why would they ask "are you ok"...?

Wait what the hell? Ur right! Ban hammer pl0x!

alentris · « **Reply #24 on:** July 23, 2009, 08:54:39 AM »

Quote from: EverGREEN on July 19, 2009, 03:22:16 PM

I have no idea why, but they seem obsessed with how I am

hah I feel your pain... half my text convo's are like that

I think that girls have some odd desire to know how you are/what you're doing/ what you're going to do.

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Author Topic: I can't talk to girls for some reason. (Read 6444 times)