My first proper date? What should i do?

[PhenomenalDesigns]

Ok, ive worked so hard on getting numbers and approaching, and successfully got a really cute girls number, talking to her, she seems to like me alot and i like her quite a bit. To cut things short, we are going on a 'date' at the cinema, never been on a proper date before, any quick advice?

also im not retarded, i know some stuff about girls (So don't say, brush yo teeth)

[Luke]

Don't be nervous, it will just make things worst.
be a gentleman, talk about things she likes not what you like.
Don't get carried off with things. Don't be late, Girls hate it if they get there before you
and they have to wait.

[ryan0]

Just go with the flow man,don't go see a movie with too much of anything,go and see a kinda crap one,because then she won't pay much if any attention to it,initiate conversation and in 10 mins you'll be ripping her underwear off with your teeth.
Also,brush yo teeth.

[PhenomenalDesigns]

Don't be nervous, it will just make things worst.
be a gentleman, talk about things she likes not what you like.
Don't get carried off with things. Don't be late, Girls hate it if they get there before you
and they have to wait.

We like the same things luckily lol, but ill listen to her more than she listens to me?, ill leave extra early in secret lol

Just go with the flow man,don't go see a movie with too much of anything,go and see a kinda crap one,because then she won't pay much if any attention to it,initiate conversation and in 10 mins you'll be ripping her underwear off with your teeth.
Also,brush yo teeth.

I said lets just go there, and she can pick a film because, well I didn't know what to choose. Luckily ive seen all the exciting films in the cinema so were bound to see a crap one lol

Hopefully we wont be watching the film if you get what I mean

Also were going to find something to do afterwards too, maybe

Also that was some fast respone, Acidmods Girl Help Instant Hotline

[Luke]

We like the same things luckily lol, but ill listen to her more than she listens to me?, ill leave extra early in secret lol
I said lets just go there, and she can pick a film because, well I didn't know what to choose. Luckily ive seen all the exciting films in the cinema so were bound to see a crap one lol

Hopefully we wont be watching the film if you get what I mean

Also were going to find something to do afterwards too, maybe

Also that was some fast respone, Acidmods Girl Help Instant Hotline

Tend to let her talk more, you don't want to bore her out of all your stories and hobbies, but don't be too quite either.

Take to her lunch, dinner w/e after.. talk
walk home or what ever you want to do.
and hopefully all goes well and she ask's if you want to come in .














& at your service XD

[PhenomenalDesigns]

Tend to let her talk more, you don't want to bore her out of all your stories and hobbies, but don't be too quite either.

Take to her lunch, dinner w/e after.. talk
walk home or what ever you want to do.
and hopefully all goes well and she ask's if you want to come in .














& at your service XD

Might stop at some coffee shop i know, i go there quite a bit for a good talk
And ill try to be constantly funny all the time? Most of the time anyway

You guys sure do know alot about girls

[P3nnyw1se]

Don't go overboard on being funny.  Unless she likes total clowns, xP

[scott]

Bring a condom.

[alentris]

Bring a condom.

not necessary, man. Let's keep this conversation PG...

But be sure to put your arm around her, it really can set the mood.

[scott]

Telling someone to bring a condom should be rated G

Protection first.

[alentris]

Telling someone to bring a condom should be rated G

Protection first.

true, but I bet you've never been yelled at for having one in your wallet.

[DarkShot]

FYI peeps, scott does have a very, very valid point.

Anywhooo, be sure to have enough money to pay for the both of you for the entire night. Don't go bankrupt, and don't actually pay for the entire night unless you feel like doing so, but do something like buy her movie ticket or drink. Treat her out. It's always the thought that matters. Another thing is to make eye contact while chatting at a place like a coffee shop. Shifting your gaze around is fine, but during that time, she's the center of attention, so pay attention. That being said, don't stare her down either lol. Be comfortable, be relaxed, and be who you are.

Oh, and bring TicTacs too. Brushin yo teeth only does so much.

[PhenomenalDesigns]

Ooo im so in there, i have condoms in my room but i don't think ill need them, YET!

[PspKicks316]

Protip: If she asks you if you want to go back to her place, do it.

[PhenomenalDesigns]

Protip: If she asks you if you want to go back to her place, do it.

Will do

[lewson]

Anything your told now you wont remember on the day. Just be yourself.

[PhenomenalDesigns]

Anything your told now you wont remember on the day. Just be yourself.

Lol, i will remember some stuff

Also if i mess up, i dont think she would mind, since im sure she likes me, because she asked me if we wanted to go out (And i barely knew her) and just us two, but then i picked cinema because i was out of ideas

[4dP]

the cinema is a safe choice next should try a place both of you haven't went before so you can experience it together. so if your stuck you got something new to talk about. be yourself but be your best self.

[Jumbo]

1. ALWAYS have a condom in ur wallet. Always.

2. Brush yo teeth.

[PhenomenalDesigns]

the cinema is a safe choice next should try a place both of you haven't went before so you can experience it together. so if your stuck you got something new to talk about. be yourself but be your best self.

Also i picked cinema because I was out of ideas, but then agian in a we she picked it, i happened to just mention it

1. ALWAYS have a condom in ur wallet. Always.

2. Brush yo teeth.

I think i will carry one just incase, highly doubt i will need it though, and yes i will brush my teeth

Im pretty sure she likes me but is unsure that i like her back, you what i mean? I was talking to her yesterday and she said she has habit of holding the persons shes with hand's whenever in a crowded area, and we're going to a crowded area. im not sure if shes just saying that because she actually does, which is just weird, or if she wants to hold my hand (hopefully the second one)

Also its not the same girl as the girl I met at the uni,


EDIT: Okay, just got back home, i didnt get to kiss her but i think kissing is a bit weird when you see somebody properly for the first time, although we did hold hands alot and held each other alot, so, im guessing she must like me, if she didnt then shes just super crazy lol

im so in there

[SN!P3R]

Ask for anal sex on the first date. The only way to a girls heart is through her ass

[Reaper]

Ask for anal sex on the first date. The only way to a girls heart is through her ass

True that!

[Blazinkaos]

The first day isnt allows about sex.  Just be chilled and show her a good time. Talk to her and listen to her and pay attention to her more like in the eyes are not down.

[gamerdude767]

she is wet for you buddy :P WOO!

[PhenomenalDesigns]

She asked if i can come out with her today aswell, maybe today i can try for a kiss?

[ProperBritish]

go nuts.

ooh, ask her at the end, 'do you mind if i kiss you?'

such a turn on, very romantic.

[PhenomenalDesigns]

go nuts.

ooh, ask her at the end, 'do you mind if i kiss you?'

such a turn on, very romantic.

I will try that, if we don't have one of those moments when your supposed to kiss before the end lol

[4dP]

thats ok but that might lead to rejection

try mystery's kiss close:

You ask, "Would you like to kiss me?

If she says yes, kiss her.

If she says, "Maybe," ''Why?", "What do you mean" or "I donno" it means she does, but is shy about it. Reply with a gleam in your eye, "Let's find out..." *kiss*

Remember to caress the back of her neck to show you mean business.

If she says no, you reply, "Well I didn't say you could, it just looked like you had something on your mind." (Don't ask "Why not?" This shows low self-esteem.)
If she says, "not yet" or "not here" it means she is open to it but there is a logistical issue. Perhaps her friends are nearby, or she needs more gaming first. Say, "I understand," and continue gaming her.

Does it seem as if most of these lines involve asking her for permission in order to kiss her? Is that wimpy? They are just considerations. We've found that just going for the kiss without indicating your intentions can sometimes lead to embarrassment — more than her saying just saying no.

When she says no, that is much easier to save face from than the situation where you try to kiss her and she moves away.

[PhenomenalDesigns]

So today, near the end, i kissed her, then we started kissing each other for a bit, no tongue or anything. But wow i suck at kissing, seriously, I said "I know, im a terrible kisser", she said, "I can tell, want me to teach you?" then she kissed me agian, then agian, teaching me how to do it O:

But i feel a bit like i :censored:ed up everything, i dont know, today was really good till i got home, realised i :censored:ed up, my almost brand new pc broke, im already sorta in debt, and i scraped my wrist on a heatsink today and its really painful and now it looks like i cut myself

[DarkShot]

Props dude. You're making headway.

Hear me out, I'm going through relationship stuff as well, and the best thing to do is not regret if you mess up. As for the wrist, wear a long sleeve shirt.

[PhenomenalDesigns]

Props dude. You're making headway.

Hear me out, I'm going through relationship stuff as well, and the best thing to do is not regret if you mess up. As for the wrist, wear a long sleeve shirt.

Yeah, just that kiss made my day, even though the rest of the day ruined it

Im trying not to regret it, i don't even know why i regret it, it should be the other way around. Before i left i was doing some stuff online and apparently if a girl looks at your eyes, then your lips, then your eyes agian, shes thinking about kissing you. She did do that a few times but i couldnt help thinking maybe she was just curious, till I was right in her face. Since we were hugging because i was extremely cold, our faces were constantly touching, then when i turned and she turned towards me, like close enough that out noses was touching i just went for it (After she did the lip thing agian), then kissing after that. And im not sure if she was or not, couldn't really tell, but i think she kept kissing my cheek when we was talking. But i still have a feeling i messed up, i think im just really embarresed that i can't kiss that good, due to lack of experience, compared to her.

About the wrists, i don't have long sleeve shirts, which is weird... I think ill just cover it with some wristbands and bracelets till its gone

[ProperBritish]

lol i get cuts all the time from metal n crap, always on my wrists which doesnt reflect well.

but dude you're getting there. don't feel bad if you're a bad kisser, think of it this way.

everyone starts off somewhere... AND she likes you enough to want to teach you how to kiss. MEANING she totally digs you. :P

[alentris]

Yeah, if a girl likes you enough to teach you, that's a good thing. Plus, it's understandable if you're bad at kissing, I don't think she'll care.

[DarkShot]

Dude, you ain't a bad kisser. If you were, it'd totally turn her off of kissing you. You're an inexperienced kisser.

Don't let anything get you down. There are very small things that we all don't notice. Usually we realize them later, as in your case. She digs you. That's more than a lot of us can truthfully say. Just go with it. See where things lead. The going's good right now, so it's bound to get better.

[PhenomenalDesigns]

lol i get cuts all the time from metal n crap, always on my wrists which doesnt reflect well.

but dude you're getting there. don't feel bad if you're a bad kisser, think of it this way.

everyone starts off somewhere... AND she likes you enough to want to teach you how to kiss. MEANING she totally digs you. :P

It doesn't look like a cut now,now it looks like a scratch now, sorta. And yeah it wasn't my first kiss ever, but the last time i kissed a girl was when I was 13 i think (And that was only a few times), thats two years without any proper kissing.

Yeah, if a girl likes you enough to teach you, that's a good thing. Plus, it's understandable if you're bad at kissing, I don't think she'll care.

Yeah, the way she did it though, its like she doesn't care about how i kiss, she just wanted to kiss me more, because she sorta grabbed me and pulled my face towards her that time, and she couldn't hold in the smile before she did it.

Dude, you ain't a bad kisser. If you were, it'd totally turn her off of kissing you. You're an inexperienced kisser.

Don't let anything get you down. There are very small things that we all don't notice. Usually we realize them later, as in your case. She digs you. That's more than a lot of us can truthfully say. Just go with it. See where things lead. The going's good right now, so it's bound to get better.

I guess your right, i think i started to get the hang of it anyway, maybe she could teach me more, like if I kiss her agian because we're going cinema saturday, then i could whisper in her ear "Could you teach me to kiss properly?".

Yeah im not after sex or anything like that, although that would be a plus, but shes got so much in common with me. You know you always have that one friend, who its like has the same brain as you, they say the exact same things and the exact same times, love the same things, etc. I have a friend like that, but she is like that, even more! Maybe thats why she likes me? Because personally I don't think im prettiest face. Ive been told im really cute, and even a few times hot, but i don't know if they were serious, or they were trying to boost my confidence and make me feel better about myself because some of them know about my shyness problems, although a few of them didnt so, maybe im in for the win

[Blazinkaos]

Thats the cool with a partner(girl) the right is usually the one that has a personally just like ur self is some times seem like your friends but much more. But keep it up man and it should all go well.

[PhenomenalDesigns]

Thats the cool with a partner(girl) the right is usually the one that has a personally just like ur self is some times seem like your friends but much more. But keep it up man and it should all go well.

Yeah im glad we didn't get stuck in the friend zone, since shes great

[ryan0]

The first day isnt allows about sex.

Never stopped me...

[Rory]

Don't fap infront of her....
Doesn't impress :S