Author Topic: I'm scared. (Read 12050 times)

alentris · « **on:** October 27, 2009, 02:04:51 PM »

So, our soccer team is going to state. Great, right? WRONG

The entire team is shaving their heads. No skin off their backs, they have short, typical, guy hair. My hair, on the other hand, is long and flowing. It will take over a year to grow back right. What should I do? They're going to assault me at practice with a razor TONIGHT (a friend warned me), and i want to keep my hair, but i don't want to be the only one with long hair.

Tri-edge · « **Reply #1 on:** October 27, 2009, 02:12:46 PM »

bring a gun

j/k

Call ahead and say I won't come if they are going to do that. Or don't even go to practice. You have a right to safety and if they are going to violate it you shouldn't go. Even if your school calls they can't do

because you are afraid for your safety. Same thing for the game too. If they are going to be

and do that to you then show them that you don't have to go and see how much THEY like it.

robin1989 · « **Reply #2 on:** October 27, 2009, 02:28:08 PM »

Get a bald cap from a joke shop n wear that

dedafmonteur · « **Reply #3 on:** October 27, 2009, 02:31:10 PM »

fairly easy, if they touch you just find the biggest bloke on your team and punsh him in the face.
than the other wont do a thing.

alentris · « **Reply #4 on:** October 27, 2009, 03:17:13 PM »

So, i just called everyone everyone, and said "screw you go

yourselves". They said that they will pin me down at the next practice or at school. I've contacted the principal, and I'm bringing my paintball gun to practice.

Edit:
Oh

they're going to announced that I :censored:ed out at the pep rally.

FreeK · « **Reply #5 on:** October 27, 2009, 06:56:12 PM »

how bout....you just cut your hair then make a wig out of it to wear till its grown back.

Tri-edge · « **Reply #6 on:** October 27, 2009, 06:56:51 PM »

Quote from: alentris on October 27, 2009, 03:17:13 PM

Edit:
Oh they're going to announced that I :censored:ed out at the pep rally.

They can't do that. it's harassment and if they do they WILL get suspended. Also bring a recorder and record them saying it (tell them your doing it too

) and FORCE your principle to stop them and if HE doesn't do it then get a lawyer and sue the school for not doing it's job. Also I would notify the coach and try and get him to put a stop to it. btw this is all in the school rules and state laws.

~:Dhruv:~ · « **Reply #7 on:** October 27, 2009, 07:33:21 PM »

yup , you don't have to do this , your responsibility is only as far as playing well... I can totally relate coz i too have long hair and i wouldn't dare cut them... And this behaviour is just unacceptable.. Contact your coach or someone.

Jumbo · « **Reply #8 on:** October 27, 2009, 08:04:59 PM »

Lol why are they shaving there heads? That makes no sense....

Hai guise we winner so we cut off our hair.

lol-russ · « **Reply #9 on:** October 27, 2009, 08:26:03 PM »

there are at least 3 solutions
1. shave your hair before they shave it for you
2. learn parkour and make fun running
3.bring pepper spray or a painball gun with pepper bullets
so if they do shave it
after they shave it dont fear them. drive that energy on revenge
and besides halloween is coming
it best to teach them not to mess with you

Blazinkaos · « **Reply #10 on:** October 27, 2009, 08:36:49 PM »

Back in the day i had my hair long long but when it came to work and ppl fight took it straight off. So i mean you may as well get used to having it short.

802Chives · « **Reply #11 on:** October 27, 2009, 09:00:41 PM »

well it looks pretty clear cut to me, but there are some factors that play into this deal.

First off, are you a junior or a senior? Cuz if ur a senior then you have a right to your hair cuz you served several years on that team. You may have take one or two guys out to prove your point, but you may have a chance. A junior I would say that you are probably going to get ur head shaved.

its tough but I dont think it would be in your best interest to get the "authorities" involved, thats probably not the best social move being you are only in the first half of the year.

PspKicks316 · « **Reply #12 on:** October 27, 2009, 09:13:47 PM »

Quote from: 802Chives on October 27, 2009, 09:00:41 PM

clear cut to me

I see what you did there.

OP: Just don't do it, man.

Tri-edge · « **Reply #13 on:** October 27, 2009, 09:55:24 PM »

Quote from: 802Chives on October 27, 2009, 09:00:41 PM

its tough but I dont think it would be in your best interest to get the "authorities" involved, thats probably not the best social move being you are only in the first half of the year.

bull

. this is a threat, harrasment, attempted assualt (or assault if they DO do it), spreading false rumors, and valger language (pep rally) all in one. This SHOULD NOT BE ALLOWED in the united states OR in SCHOOL. Any judge would side with you if you actually took them to court and you will WIN and get a lot of money if they do do this.

Tell the coach and principle that you will sue and that should get them to set things straight. They are equally involved in this as much as the players if they sit down and do nothing.

Kilokk · « **Reply #14 on:** October 27, 2009, 11:11:21 PM »

quit the team. and if they say you wussed out, let them. develop a "

'em" attitude. best way to survive highschool

dedafmonteur · « **Reply #15 on:** October 28, 2009, 12:06:22 AM »

good god you guys are strange....

if you like your team and they are your mates tan go bold.

if they aint, than tell them to piss off

bustinthejustin · « **Reply #16 on:** October 28, 2009, 05:03:13 AM »

Socially the best idea would be to shave your head unfortunately. Logically, the best idea would be to tell the authorities, etc. etc. Your choice.

Modded Matt · « **Reply #17 on:** October 28, 2009, 05:10:35 AM »

lets face itmost of us including myself are computer guys anyway, which means we dont have that many friends or social groups to begin with, and becoming a snich or a taddeltell is such a small group is only going to shrink it smaller. that would be social suicide. this is about team bonding, are you a team player or not? that is how they are looking at it.

your hair will grow back, but the social scars that could come from being exciled may never go away.

Kilokk · « **Reply #18 on:** October 28, 2009, 05:55:31 AM »

speak for yourself matt. i am one of the popular kids at school.

~:Dhruv:~ · « **Reply #19 on:** October 28, 2009, 06:21:21 AM »

hmmm killok , i'd agree with Matt , i was a total loner in school... I didn't have any friends. Now that i've changed my social behaviour a lot , i'm among the popular kids in college. But those scars of being totally alone for 12 years of schooling really hurt....

Kilokk · « **Reply #20 on:** October 28, 2009, 07:09:23 AM »

Well i was unpopular until highschool because i was that weird antisocial kid, but then i started to come out of my shell and people loved it... i am one of the few people who can say he is invited to all the parties AND built his own computer...

dedafmonteur · « **Reply #21 on:** October 28, 2009, 08:16:29 AM »

never say your the popular kid at school because its easy to say that on a online forum and sounds kinda stupid.

i have a fairly big group of friends and a few best friend, im not the most popular kid in school but im the boss in my class.
im the one who will say something to a teacher whehn i dont agree on things and sometimes say things i schouldnt...lol

just be yourself and it will al be fine.

budgray19 · « **Reply #22 on:** October 28, 2009, 08:18:43 AM »

im not gonna lie. id do it. uve seen my hair and u saw what it went to. if upull the authoritys into this u r gonna be known as a

ass and you dont want that. here listen.
i had it much worse
my hair looked like this during my graduation

unless u wanna be know as a:censored: in high school. id advise u to do it. hair grows back dood
i wasnt the coolest kid in school but everyone knew me by name. and some i didnt even know.

Kilokk · « **Reply #23 on:** October 28, 2009, 08:28:41 AM »

Quote from: dedafmonteur on October 28, 2009, 08:16:29 AM

never say your the popular kid at school because its easy to say that on a online forum and sounds kinda stupid.

this is true, but i was just saying that we arent all socially awkward...

dedafmonteur · « **Reply #24 on:** October 28, 2009, 09:01:47 AM »

yes, i agree with that.

we're not all ''geeks''

802Chives · « **Reply #25 on:** October 28, 2009, 10:45:04 AM »

snitches get stiches... words to live by, my parents who are in their 60's grew up like that and so did I. One of my best buddies in highschool ratted out a pot dealer to get out of a DUI, never hurt me or anyone I hung out with, however I/we havent talked to him in since. Just the way it is.

Not that this pertains to Alentris' situation as wouldnt be snitching to get himself out of trouble or jail, rather he just wants to save his hair. tough call, i never had long hair so everytime I shaved my head with my team it wasnt a big deal, however every championship team i was ever on there was little to nothing we all wouldnt do to show our loyalty and bonding. Hair grows back, friends and teamates dont.

H-Sauce · « **Reply #26 on:** October 28, 2009, 10:56:53 AM »

Shave it. If it's like over hear, you tell you WILL get beats. I know I would rather having no hair than getting punched in the face multiple times. Anyway, there's nothing wrong with shaved hair.

dedafmonteur · « **Reply #27 on:** October 28, 2009, 12:02:51 PM »

i love the fact im the biggest dude of the team, never got any trouble with that.

although ive had to pay several tickets because i knocked a few people down with waterpolo.
i wanr them twice after that i get mad.

but yeh, shave it baby!!

~:Dhruv:~ · « **Reply #28 on:** October 28, 2009, 12:04:22 PM »

Quote from: H-Sauce on October 28, 2009, 10:56:53 AM

Shave it. If it's like over hear, you tell you WILL get beats. I know I would rather having no hair than getting punched in the face multiple times. Anyway, there's nothing wrong with shaved hair.

Lol , kinda disagree with u on that , Brendan would look a lil wierd with shaved hair.... but then again , you gotta do what you gotta do. The kind of support + friendship you'll get by doing this will be worth much more than long hair. Trust me on what i'm saying coz even i have long hair and i wouldnt want to cut them...

gamerdude767 · « **Reply #29 on:** October 28, 2009, 12:29:46 PM »

Quote from: H-Sauce on October 28, 2009, 10:56:53 AM

Shave it. If it's like over hear, you tell you WILL get beats.

Thats true LOL.

also this thread makes me lol.. Just shave your hair!

zeblon123 · « **Reply #30 on:** October 28, 2009, 02:16:33 PM »

haha, just let it go bro. last year for our soccer we all got mohawks and colored them blue.
ambitious you say? well yea...we lost.

budgray19 · « **Reply #31 on:** October 28, 2009, 02:17:56 PM »

besides if and when u wanna join the navy ur gonna have to get ur hair cut

alentris · « **Reply #32 on:** October 28, 2009, 04:42:42 PM »

Dude, they've threatened to drag me out and beat me this weekend, i'll talk to the authorities if i want... But still, i didn't bring to paintball gun to practice. I also talked to the principal and heres the deal. They shave my hair, they get reported to the authorities, banned from going to state, and suspended for a week. Oh, and my coach said "Man up". Lol plus half the team won't talk to me now. I loled.

Tri-edge · « **Reply #33 on:** October 28, 2009, 06:35:51 PM »

Quote from: alentris on October 28, 2009, 04:42:42 PM

Dude, they've threatened to drag me out and beat me this weekend, i'll talk to the authorities if i want... But still, i didn't bring to paintball gun to practice. I also talked to the principal and heres the deal. They shave my hair, they get reported to the authorities, banned from going to state, and suspended for a week. Oh, and my coach said "Man up". Lol plus half the team won't talk to me now. I loled.

next time he says that then tell him to

off. it's your life and HE shouldn't try and push it. You do not need to do this stupid haircut thing. it does NOT help the team at all no matter what they say. If you don't want to you don't have to and nobody should challenge your decision or call you a

for doing so.

robin1989 · « **Reply #34 on:** October 28, 2009, 07:12:32 PM »

Quote from: Tri-edge on October 28, 2009, 06:35:51 PM

next time he says that then tell him to off. it's your life and HE shouldn't try and push it. You do not need to do this stupid haircut thing. it does NOT help the team at all no matter what they say. If you don't want to you don't have to and nobody should challenge your decision or call you a for doing so.

actually it does help the team as they see it as a form of bonding and camaraderie and that tends to help a team stick together and work better as a team. i dont see why you didnt take my suggestion and ware a bald hat or wig or whatever its called and make a bit of a joke about it

bustinthejustin · « **Reply #35 on:** October 28, 2009, 07:30:00 PM »

Honestly shave your head... It's just hair, and I agree with everyone who's said it helps you bond with your team... It's like if we all were to sacrifice something and you sat there going "no way my hair is too precious", then you aren't really part of the team anymore.... And the social status you would lose over this wouldn't be worth it. Being "the loser" sucks ass.

alentris · « **Reply #36 on:** October 29, 2009, 07:42:49 AM »

Quote from: bustinthejustin on October 28, 2009, 07:30:00 PM

Honestly shave your head... It's just hair, and I agree with everyone who's said it helps you bond with your team... It's like if we all were to sacrifice something and you sat there going "no way my hair is too precious", then you aren't really part of the team anymore.... And the social status you would lose over this wouldn't be worth it. Being "the loser" sucks ass.

... I'll take the social hit, it'll only last until their hair grows back. An they already alienated me, so there's no turning back now.

budgray19 · « **Reply #37 on:** October 29, 2009, 07:50:16 AM »

no
if u decide to do it now
they would be cool with you again
see ur putting up such a fight for something so stupid...
but its ur high school life not mine thx god.

alentris · « **Reply #38 on:** October 29, 2009, 07:52:15 AM »

Quote from: budgray19 on October 29, 2009, 07:50:16 AM

no
if u decide to do it now
they would be cool with you again
see ur putting up such a fight for something so stupid...
but its ur high school life not mine thx god.

listen. I just wear a hat at state like everyone else (its gonna be below freezing), and i fit right in. There ya go.

gamerdude767 · « **Reply #39 on:** October 29, 2009, 07:52:24 AM »

Quote from: alentris on October 29, 2009, 07:42:49 AM

... I'll take the social hit, it'll only last until their hair grows back. An they already alienated me, so there's no turning back now.

Did they shave your hair?!

Barnsey · « **Reply #40 on:** October 29, 2009, 07:55:27 AM »

no he

out...

alentris · « **Reply #41 on:** October 29, 2009, 07:57:37 AM »

Quote from: gamerdude767 on October 29, 2009, 07:52:24 AM

Did they shave your hair?!

no, but i did just get a haircut, and I got my number shaved into the back of my head

gamerdude767 · « **Reply #42 on:** October 29, 2009, 08:00:06 AM »

Post a pic lol

alentris · « **Reply #43 on:** October 29, 2009, 08:06:06 AM »

I had the hairdresser cut my hair down to about 2.5 inches, but they still say "It's not short enough."

budgray19 · « **Reply #44 on:** October 29, 2009, 09:00:13 AM »

well u might aswell cut it now
i mean now majority of ur hair is gone. theres no real reason to not shave it
ok maby not a full shave but a jarhead style

alentris · « **Reply #45 on:** October 29, 2009, 10:40:46 AM »

Quote from: budgray19 on October 29, 2009, 09:00:13 AM

well u might aswell cut it now
i mean now majority of ur hair is gone. theres no real reason to not shave it
ok maby not a full shave but a jarhead style

I don't think you realize that they want my head to be BALD.

dedafmonteur · « **Reply #46 on:** October 29, 2009, 10:46:49 AM »

this is jsut epic, shave it dude. this just looks......goofy:P

~:Dhruv:~ · « **Reply #47 on:** October 29, 2009, 11:19:38 AM »

just shave it man.... get over with it , and i dunno man , this looks a lil ummm... wierd. I mean , no offence , it might work where u live but i wouldnt be caught dead with that hair cut !!!

alentris · « **Reply #48 on:** October 29, 2009, 11:23:44 AM »

Quote from: ~:Dhruv:~ on October 29, 2009, 11:19:38 AM

just shave it man.... get over with it , and i dunno man , this looks a lil ummm... wierd. I mean , no offence , it might work where u live but i wouldnt be caught dead with that hair cut !!!

lol it looks weird because you can't see the front. I have a monster cowlick, and it looks sweet. But even at this point, i'm just trying to tell them that hairstyle shouldn't matter if you're on a team. We've all been playing together since about the 3rd grade, and I don't think shaving my head should tear apart an amazing team bond.

blackburn · « **Reply #49 on:** October 29, 2009, 12:58:24 PM »

i had to do it for varsity when i was a freshman, its not a big deal, your hair will grow back in a couple of months. And by the looks of the pic your hair is THAT long. Just do like your coach said and Man Up.

jacobia jacob · « **Reply #50 on:** October 29, 2009, 07:25:35 PM »

just shave it. i would have agreed with you if it was longer, the whole team pressure thing is gay, but you already cut it so short it won't really matter now. it's not like people are gonna f :censored:k with u about it if you do it, but if you don't people are gonna be all like wow all the rest of the team shaved their heads except this kid, what a pansy. hair grows back man, don't over think it and just do it.

lol-russ · « **Reply #51 on:** October 31, 2009, 05:45:57 AM »

try dealing with the douchbags one by one
the easiest way is to save one sucker punch for each

blackburn · « **Reply #52 on:** November 01, 2009, 08:12:02 PM »

Quote from: lol-russ on October 31, 2009, 05:45:57 AM

try dealing with the douchbags one by one
the easiest way is to save one sucker punch for each

if you sucker punch someone, your going to piss even more people off for being a little cheap b

h

H-Sauce · « **Reply #53 on:** November 02, 2009, 12:58:46 AM »

Just shave it. Half of essex are skinheads. It's not the bad (Even I had it done once lol).

Amerikun Soljia · « **Reply #54 on:** November 02, 2009, 05:19:27 AM »

If your gonna join the navy I would say just go ahead and shave it. But DO NOT show up to navy basic training with a bald head, they will get on u for that, they'll say "Oh, you think you a sailor already?!?!?" and U gonna be on the bad list already. at least the army did that to me. Let it grow for like 3 weeks before u go.

alentris · « **Reply #55 on:** November 02, 2009, 05:33:26 AM »

I like to think of it as dr. seuss puts it:

"Be who you are and say what you want, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind."

Amerikun Soljia · « **Reply #56 on:** November 02, 2009, 02:00:22 PM »

True. So do what you think is right for you then.

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Author Topic: I'm scared. (Read 12050 times)