Going by the wire color is not really accurate, as that will vary from manufacture to manufacture.
You really need at the least a DMM (Digital Multi-Meter) so you can ohm out the lines to each other to know what is really what.
You could just try different wiring schemes until you get it right, there are only 6 possible combinations there and only one of them will both sound right, as well as work right when you change the balance from Left to Right.
Tip - Ring - Shield
Blue - Red - Gold
Blue - Gold - Red
Gold - Blue - Red
Gold - Red - Blue
Red - Blue - Gold
Red - Gold - Blue