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I dont know who to tell this to, but I just have to tell somebody, some reason...
Basically I have been picked for these master classes, basically I go to university every saturday for 4 weeks studying some kind of subject, I was nominated for engineering, fine art and photography, I chose photography, because there would be no girls in engineering and I was the only one in my school applicable for photohraphy (I let somebody else do art)
Anyway, today was my first day, and usually not being around many girls (My school is 95% boys), I was actually outnumbered... Theres like 12 in our group, like 3 guys... Theres this really cute girl in my class, she looks like that guys sister from eurotrip (The blond one that goes with them across europe, the american one...)
But I was too scared to approach her/talk to her............ :beg:
I will try my best next saturday, but its not 'sex' im looking for, i just want a girlfriend :)
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Nice! Hints:
Be Nice (duh)
Don't act awkward
Try to talk like you would to any other guy
Talk about something in common (photography)
DON'T crack rude jokes about ANYONE near her (no matter how badly they lead you on)
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Fully agree with Alentris
Wow, I'm jealous :D wish i was in your position.... Ur one lucky dude ~!
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Actually, don't talk to her like any other guy. To your guy friends you might swear more, be more rude, and generally talk about guy things. But around a girl, you want to be much more polite, talk about things she actually cares about, etc.
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Actually, don't talk to her like any other guy. To your guy friends you might swear more, be more rude, and generally talk about guy things. But around a girl, you want to be much more polite, talk about things she actually cares about, etc.
Yeah, I meant talk to her without stumbling or saying awkward things, like stated later in the post.
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im 28 so ive been through this quite a few times. it sounds bad but tell the truth, girls like that. EX. im shy but i wanted to come say hi anyways. or offer coffee or lunch to talk. you never know what could happen/ or what could not happen if you dont. like her with someone you know b/c you didnt say anything. a good friend of mine always said it dosnt hurt to try.
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it dosnt hurt to try.
THIS is great advice right there. Always try. If you don't try, you'll never know what could have happened.
Pointers;;
Don't be shy around her, or at least don't SHOW it.
Don't be OVERLY caring or nice. Girls like to be independant but also have a guy who's a gentleman and will offer to help and such.
Like stated, if you guys go on a date or something, offer to buy her coffee or pay for the movie, for example.
It's okay to talk to her just like one of your other friends. That's what I do and I don't have problems. Don't be rude or anything, though. Be calm, cool, and collective.
Adjust yourself/your behavior to her personality. If she acts rude, then you're allowed to act a little rude. If you offer her something and she declines more than once, then stop offering her something unless it's something you know a girl would like. For example, if it's raining and she has no coat, offer her yours.
Meh, just some tips. I'm great with girls. =P
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Nice! Hints:
Be Nice (duh)
Don't act awkward
Try to talk like you would to any other guy
Talk about something in common (photography)
DON'T crack rude jokes about ANYONE near her (no matter how badly they lead you on)
Good points, although thing is im not sure if ANYBODY apart from me knows anything about photography there lol, because they just picked it in their school because they thought it would be fun, I sorta got chosen for it because my brother is a photographer and he has taught me everything about it (Amperature, ISO, HDR, etc) so yeah... Although, since we will be photoshopping our photos next week, I will try and sit next to her (Without being a creep) and I will try to notice if she has any trouble (Because I think she has never used photoshop either...)
Fully agree with Alentris
Wow, I'm jealous :D wish i was in your position.... Ur one lucky dude ~!
hah, yeah i guess i am very lucky, although i have to get most out of it (Education and girlwise)
Actually, don't talk to her like any other guy. To your guy friends you might swear more, be more rude, and generally talk about guy things. But around a girl, you want to be much more polite, talk about things she actually cares about, etc.
I ain't really a guy that swears that much, but I do swear the occasional time, so I should stop that... Thing is, I have NO idea what she likes lol, all I know is that shes cute, shes 15, shes not a chav, emo, goth, scene (I love scene girls though) or anything like that
Yeah, I meant talk to her without stumbling or saying awkward things, like stated later in the post.
When i speak to girls or infront of people, I tend to get shakey, and run out of breath, I get nervous easily...
im 28 so ive been through this quite a few times. it sounds bad but tell the truth, girls like that. EX. im shy but i wanted to come say hi anyways. or offer coffee or lunch to talk. you never know what could happen/ or what could not happen if you dont. like her with someone you know b/c you didnt say anything. a good friend of mine always said it dosnt hurt to try.
I get what you mean, great advice, I dont want to sound too creepy just coming up to her saying hi, then having nothing else to say LOL, but yeah then agian, if I dont approach her, NOTHING will happen, but if I approach her, i have a chance something WILL HAPPEN, problem is shes always with a friend, hopefully I can catch her alone or maybe even beat my nerves somehow...
THIS is great advice right there. Always try. If you don't try, you'll never know what could have happened.
Pointers;;
Don't be shy around her, or at least don't SHOW it.
Don't be OVERLY caring or nice. Girls like to be independant but also have a guy who's a gentleman and will offer to help and such.
Like stated, if you guys go on a date or something, offer to buy her coffee or pay for the movie, for example.
It's okay to talk to her just like one of your other friends. That's what I do and I don't have problems. Don't be rude or anything, though. Be calm, cool, and collective.
Adjust yourself/your behavior to her personality. If she acts rude, then you're allowed to act a little rude. If you offer her something and she declines more than once, then stop offering her something unless it's something you know a girl would like. For example, if it's raining and she has no coat, offer her yours.
Meh, just some tips. I'm great with girls. =P
I will need a crashcourse in confidence O grand master (Seriously... lol, I need this in less than a week)
I was reading some david d and he was saying that girls like it when you care about them, but not so much, like you said, but being unpredictable, like sometimes you will offer help, other times you will get somebody else to do it (Although I wont do that, since maybe they will get to her, I dont want her to be taken before I get the chance)
Since I got quite a bit of dosh, I can always take her to the cinema and pay for it, im guessing you know your stuff about girls...
do girls like it if you just stare into their eyes while their talking? or is that just creepy
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problem is shes always with a friend, hopefully I can catch her alone or maybe even beat my nerves somehow...
That could potentially be good, it can open up the conversation for more topics.
do girls like it if you just stare into their eyes while their talking? or is that just creepy
Keep eye contact, you can look around, but she can probably tell when you're nervous if you stare off in the distance... Use body language (not too accentuated), and make sure you blink. Don't "stare" but keep attention.
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start up some chit-chat by like commenting her on some of her photography then introduce yourself with a nice smile and maybe show her some pointers, play it cool and slow and soon enough you 2 will talk more and you'll feel more comfortable
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start up some chit-chat by like commenting her on some of her photography then introduce yourself with a nice smile and maybe show her some pointers, play it cool and slow and soon enough you 2 will talk more and you'll feel more comfortable
lol, no better place to get info than strait from the source XD
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Am I the only one who has a GF that thought it was cute when I was nervous about talking to her and asking her out? I was a COMPLETE wreck. We were walking in the halls of my school, and I dropped my stuff (books and :censored:) tripped... TWICE, stuttered, and almost had an asthma attack >.< I gave her my number, took down what I thought was a rejection hotline number, said I would call her, and felt so bad about it all that I didn't even try the number. 2 days later she called me and asked why I didn't call her like I said I would. We went out, and the rest is history ^_^
I think I just got lucky that my nervousness made her laugh and think I was cute and funny ^_^
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Am I the only one who has a GF that thought it was cute when I was nervous about talking to her and asking her out?
No. For me, it's "has had a girlfriend" though.
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ha ha , i've never had a girlfriend and i'm gonna be 19 soon !!!
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ha ha , i've never had a girlfriend and i'm gonna be 19 soon !!!
your day will come, padowan XD
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I've never had a gf either, but I'm only 13... But anyway, I've talked to enough girls and just be yourself. A lot of this is good advice. And being a little nervous shouldn't really matter, but I've met some girls who are :censored:y about that. Just play it cool and see what happens!
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I've never had a gf either, but I'm only 13...
having a gf isn't all it's cracked up to be, either...
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having a gf isn't all it's cracked up to be, either...
Indeed
(I love scene girls though)
lol yes I do believe that many do.
One more thing: Don't initially lead on that you like her when you first meet her. Get over the biggest thing, which would be initially meeting her.
If you're funny, and you're comfortable, than it's a bonus too. Comfort and confidence are relatively things. If you feel good, and relaxed, you need not worry.
And do know that what we all have said are suggestions to give you ideas. You can choose to take what you want.
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ha ha , i've never had a girlfriend and i'm gonna be 19 soon !!!
:eyebrow:
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@ Alentris - thank you obi wan, i know the force is strong in me :)
@ gaming- big deal ? Doesn't matter much.
@ justin- ur just 13 ? You look much older !
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just a hint to drhuv
the first time you ask, you will most likely be pretty nervous/scared...even if you never get nervous about anything...trust me
just keep your cool
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thanks treemty :)
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That could potentially be good, it can open up the conversation for more topics.
Keep eye contact, you can look around, but she can probably tell when you're nervous if you stare off in the distance... Use body language (not too accentuated), and make sure you blink. Don't "stare" but keep attention.
Yeah good point, thing is when theres more people I get more nervous, like if she was alone I dont mind just her rejecting me, but if she does it infront of somebody else, they are both going to be laughing at me... Which i hate :|. And about the staring, ive noticed I do that alot, I can never look somebody in the eye, maybe if I wear my shades I wont 'have to' lol and it will just look like im looking into their eyes. Its just something about looking into somebodys eyes is hard for me, its like I have to look away (Like a mental thing).
start up some chit-chat by like commenting her on some of her photography then introduce yourself with a nice smile and maybe show her some pointers, play it cool and slow and soon enough you 2 will talk more and you'll feel more comfortable
Hmm, interesting, I will try and keep my cool (Its my cool I cant really keep, I get nervous very easily), and not act like a :censored: lol
lol, no better place to get info than strait from the source XD
True, I actually would of asked a 'girl buddie' for help on msn or something, but the reason is obvious of why I asked here instead of MSN (If you have not guessed, think harder!)
Am I the only one who has a GF that thought it was cute when I was nervous about talking to her and asking her out? I was a COMPLETE wreck. We were walking in the halls of my school, and I dropped my stuff (books and :censored:) tripped... TWICE, stuttered, and almost had an asthma attack >.< I gave her my number, took down what I thought was a rejection hotline number, said I would call her, and felt so bad about it all that I didn't even try the number. 2 days later she called me and asked why I didn't call her like I said I would. We went out, and the rest is history ^_^
I think I just got lucky that my nervousness made her laugh and think I was cute and funny ^_^
Lol, Im guessing my try won't be that... bad? (Well it wasnt really bad, you was successful!) lol
ha ha , i've never had a girlfriend and i'm gonna be 19 soon !!!
I haven't had a 'proper' girlfriend yet either (No first kiss, furthest Ive got is a hug...)
I've never had a gf either, but I'm only 13... But anyway, I've talked to enough girls and just be yourself. A lot of this is good advice. And being a little nervous shouldn't really matter, but I've met some girls who are :censored:y about that. Just play it cool and see what happens!
Will do
having a gf isn't all it's cracked up to be, either...
Same with being single.. Lol, single, im so ronery
lol yes I do believe that many do.
One more thing: Don't initially lead on that you like her when you first meet her. Get over the biggest thing, which would be initially meeting her.
If you're funny, and you're comfortable, than it's a bonus too. Comfort and confidence are relatively things. If you feel good, and relaxed, you need not worry.
And do know that what we all have said are suggestions to give you ideas. You can choose to take what you want.
Scene girls are so hot... lol, i love their hair, usually any type but my favourite is when they make it layered, and its all big but going down, hard to explain. I get it, so first I just look like im helping here with the photography (Well we are doing photoshopping next week, so I can show her on that), then eventually... after getting to know her a bit, and trying to find out if she has a boyfriend, then a part which david d taught me lol (As you walk away, saying, Ive got to go now, catch you later, turn around straight away and say "You got email?" then get out pen and paper, and while they write it (People are much more likely to give out their email rather than number) then you say "While your at it, might aswell write your number", and if they say no, just say, "Okay heres mine, blah blah..")
just a hint to drhuv
the first time you ask, you will most likely be pretty nervous/scared...even if you never get nervous about anything...trust me
just keep your cool
I get nervous just from the sight of really attractive girls
Okay, que the A-Team song when I go for it... LOL
I will try, I mean, if she says no, then, theres like another 100,000 really attractive single girls in london... infact on my way back from work (Im doing work experience)today I saw quite a few, but theres something about this one girl in my photography class.
I will just approach her (If I can, when shes alone), looking my best, smile (Not a horny grin though lol), and pretty much compliment her on her work, i just had another good idea, since we usually get set into partners who stand next to us when we are 'briefed', I will stand right next to her, and try to talk to her alot
(Oh yeah, i learnt another good trick, not sure if it works, ra1n, will this work? Basically if they touch you with their hand like shes passing me the camera, I go "Dam your hands are cold", obviously they wont be cold, so she will be like "No they aint?", then I just hold her hand and say, "Yes, see, its cold...", I also read that, I have read alot of David D stuff and I know it works, just that for my age group not sure if it will work, like if they have the similiar conscious?)
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(Oh yeah, i learnt another good trick, not sure if it works, ra1n, will this work? Basically if they touch you with their hand like shes passing me the camera, I go "Dam your hands are cold", obviously they wont be cold, so she will be like "No they aint?", then I just hold her hand and say, "Yes, see, its cold...", I also read that, I have read alot of David D stuff and I know it works, just that for my age group not sure if it will work, like if they have the similiar conscious?)
that is a tad corny, and you might want to use a different word then "damn" (like dang)
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I think "damn" is acceptable... In our generation, almost everybody uses damn. Actually, almost everybody swears, but usually girls swear less which is why you wanna be more careful about that around girls.
@ Alentris - thank you obi wan, i know the force is strong in me :)
@ gaming- big deal ? Doesn't matter much.
@ justin- ur just 13 ? You look much older !
Thanks :D In real life I think I look younger than I really am though... I walked into a radioshack and the guy thought I was a 10 year old buying solder rofl
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Thanks :D In real life I think I look younger than I really am though... I walked into a radioshack and the guy thought I was a 10 year old buying solder rofl
I asked in radioshack where the dip switches were, and the lady there goes "You know, this is the first time EVER that I've been stumped by a 13 year old XD
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LOL obviously she doesn't meet very many 13 year olds ;)
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LOL obviously she doesn't meet very many 13 year olds ;)
Well, not enough ones that know what they're talking about, lol
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jesus... am I the only one in retail that makes it a point to know the area of damn near everything in the store I work in?
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jesus... am I the only one in retail that makes it a point to know the area of damn near everything in the store I work in?
Obviously that is true, because retail stores make me ANGRY
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OMG yes walmart workers are the MOST retarded people ever. No offence to anyone who works there, but I went to a wal-mart, asked if they happened to carry soldering irons, and they go "uh... like for clothes?" Then I ask if they have x-acto knives and they point me to hardware -.-. Home Depot is a hell of a lot better though. I asked for some Brasso, and the guy walked me all the way across the store to show me. He didn't tell me which aisle, he actually brought me to it. THEN, when there was none, he suggested places where I could find it.
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OMG yes walmart workers are the MOST retarded people ever. No offence to anyone who works there, but I went to a wal-mart, asked if they happened to carry soldering irons, and they go "uh... like for clothes?" Then I ask if they have x-acto knives and they point me to hardware -.-. Home Depot is a hell of a lot better though. I asked for some Brasso, and the guy walked me all the way across the store to show me. He didn't tell me which aisle, he actually brought me to it. THEN, when there was none, he suggested places where I could find it.
yeah, menards kinda fails, home depot ftw :D (but I now prefer online ordering.) Sears is also AMAZING for tools, because they will give you a new one for free, no questions asked, if you bring in the broken tool.
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that is a tad corny, and you might want to use a different word then "damn" (like dang)
Lol, true, but I mean not in the movie romance way, I mean the 'cool' way as if you didnt notice the 'romance', its hard to explain, but I will try my best on saturday, if my balls start hitting me saying "DONTT DO IT, DONT RISK THE EMBASRRESMENT" i will be like, no, youve ':censored:ed' me over too long!!! lol Something will happen... Even if its a Hi! and she doesnt answer back (Although she doesnt look like the kind of girl that would do that)
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LOL and besides, remember, the worse that could happen could be "sorry I'm not interested". You don't know her personally, so there's really nothing to lose. I mean, I won't randomly hit on girls in my school, because if I get rejected, everyone knows and I'm a massive loser. But, if it's just someone you met somewhere else, someone who has a small chance of talking to anybody you know, then pfft, who cares if you fail?
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That is some BS! Customer service is my #1 priority! To me that's how it should be.
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LOL and besides, remember, the worse that could happen could be "sorry I'm not interested". You don't know her personally, so there's really nothing to lose. I mean, I won't randomly hit on girls in my school, because if I get rejected, everyone knows and I'm a massive loser. But, if it's just someone you met somewhere else, someone who has a small chance of talking to anybody you know, then pfft, who cares if you fail?
So true, plus she doesnt really look like the girl that would burst out laughing with all her mates
Thanks for all the help guys, tommorow is the next day of the course, I will do my best :) (Even if she says shes not interested I will ask another girl)
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So true, plus she doesnt really look like the girl that would burst out laughing with all her mates
Thanks for all the help guys, tommorow is the next day of the course, I will do my best :) (Even if she says shes not interested I will ask another girl)
good luck mate, keep us posted :D
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Good luck man.
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ONE MORE THING! If you have peach fuzz right now, it would be a good Idea to shave it, chicks don't dig peach fuzz...
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good luck !
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ONE MORE THING! If you have peach fuzz right now, it would be a good Idea to shave it, chicks don't dig peach fuzz...
Lol, I will have to do that now... for next week, maybe shave on friday too
Okay guys, the day was good and bad...
At the start of the lesson, I began to look at her out of the corner of my eye, I could see that she kept glancing at me, with a smile, and when she was doing it for longer, I looked back at her (On purpose), it was only like 2 seconds but it felt like a minute, I know Im sounding kind of lame but we were just looking at each others eyes smiling, ignoring everything else. After that I noticed she continued to glance at me.
Unfortunately, she was with her friend for the whole time, and they kept wondering off, but I did approach some other girls whilst she was gone, there was a cute trio I saw, and I just came up to them asking If I can take a picture of them (As art) and they said yes, So I did, then I talked for them for a bit before I left
After that, the day went really quick, We was back in the room when the teacher realised the coaches are waiting for us, so we ran towards them, and everybody sort of split up, I ran with her :D I noticed she kept looking back at me when we were rushing towards it, then I said cya when I saw my coach (She has a different coach)
Not much happened, but I feel she is probaly kind of attracted to me in a way, probaly, as I read in mens health that if I girl looks at you once, its normal, but if she repeatdly looks, shes attracted (And plus why would she smile? Unless somebody drew a :censored: on my face, but I made sure of that)
I woke up a bit late though, so I had to rush everything, so I didnt get to pick out my best clothes, fully wash/condition/blow dry my hair etc
At least I have next week, and the week after, I guess my real flaw here was that I still wasn't confident enough to fully talk to her whilst other people were there, even though I knew that If she didnt like me it wouldnt matter. Thing is Im 80% she likes me, and shes really beautiful and really nice, and I dont want to waste me only oppurtunity for a first impression. I guess I made a good impression with the eye contact thing, but I know nothing about her (Apart from her name, and Im guessing she listens to rock sorta music, since she is sorta scene, in a way, not like full hardcore hot scenegirl, but more like a indie, its hard to explain)
I reallly need to boost my confidence... any tips guys?
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good going buddy , atleast its a start. best of luck for next week. be sure start a conversation this time around
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Nice going mate... :tup:
Sounds like your in there.. ;)
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Tips:
looking out the corner of your eye= nuh-uh... Eye contact is good :D
try to seem happy while you're around her, it's oddly contagious.
don't be *too* often next to her, give her some personal space
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yeah you don't wanna be creepy stalker guy. Just keep it cool. Don't act desperate either. My friend does that all the time, and he's not going anywhere... Like he's always around the girl, won't leave her alone, will do anything she asks, etc. Basically, it's nice to help her out, and be around her sometimes, but don't over do it.
Another thing is, with the three hot girls that you took a picture of, try not to make it look like you're flirting, and if possible, maybe just avoid looking like you're having a great time with other girls. I mean, you can talk to them and all, but if you look flirty, that blonde girl that you really like might get the wrong idea that you like someone else, and give up, and not like you anymore.
Anyway, nice going! Definitely try to talk to her next time. And if possible, ask her for an e-mail address.
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>.> ^_^(why is that guy staring at me? just stare back and smile so he doesn't try to kill me...)
lol sorry i couldn't resist ^_^
Anyway, sounds to me like you did ok ^_^ but your not out of the woods yet. You must actually talk to her, friend or no friend.
Also I don't know if this matters or not in this case, but don't get too close to her, I made that mistake with the only scene girl I would give the time of day at my school (not really into them but she is funny >.<) She had a bf when we met, I started to like her, her bf cheated on her with her best friend, I was right there for support (actually walked 2 1/2 miles to be there with her and make sure she was ok) 4 months later when she was saying she wanted someone else I said that I was here, kinda joking kinda not. Alas though, we had grown too close for her dating tastes, so I set her up with a good friend.
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good going buddy , atleast its a start. best of luck for next week. be sure start a conversation this time around
Yeah, I Mean, I got the confidence to actually approach her (In a way) and she was smiling throughout so Im guessing she probaly likes me but I never really had the confidence to ask her for her number. Atleast next week I would probaly be more comfortable around her, being ive spoken to her before.
Nice going mate... :tup:
Sounds like your in there.. ;)
Hopefully :)
Tips:
looking out the corner of your eye= nuh-uh... Eye contact is good :D
try to seem happy while you're around her, it's oddly contagious.
don't be *too* often next to her, give her some personal space
Lol, I had to concentrate on the teacher on what he was briefing us on, but I could see her from the corner of my eye, and every like 20 seconds I would glance at her, and she was doing it aswell, but yeah, you can just tell whether their interested or not just in eye contact. I was trying to seem really happy around her, and I probaly sort of did, sort of... you see nobody else there I know so its a bit weird talking to random people, but I started interacting with other people quite well, so it looked like I was having a great time. Its tempting to keep going over to her, but I didnt that much, whenever she wondered off with her friend I didnt follow her, that would be creepy... lol but whenever we was in groups or when we was runnning back was really whenever I was near her.
yeah you don't wanna be creepy stalker guy. Just keep it cool. Don't act desperate either. My friend does that all the time, and he's not going anywhere... Like he's always around the girl, won't leave her alone, will do anything she asks, etc. Basically, it's nice to help her out, and be around her sometimes, but don't over do it.
Another thing is, with the three hot girls that you took a picture of, try not to make it look like you're flirting, and if possible, maybe just avoid looking like you're having a great time with other girls. I mean, you can talk to them and all, but if you look flirty, that blonde girl that you really like might get the wrong idea that you like someone else, and give up, and not like you anymore.
Anyway, nice going! Definitely try to talk to her next time. And if possible, ask her for an e-mail address.
Nah it didnt really look like I was flirting, plus she wasnt there, she was way off lol
I will try to get her number, or atleast an email address out of her
Thanks for all the help guys, im maybe getting somewhere here, now I just need some balls
>.> ^_^(why is that guy staring at me? just stare back and smile so he doesn't try to kill me...)
lol sorry i couldn't resist ^_^
Anyway, sounds to me like you did ok ^_^ but your not out of the woods yet. You must actually talk to her, friend or no friend.
Also I don't know if this matters or not in this case, but don't get too close to her, I made that mistake with the only scene girl I would give the time of day at my school (not really into them but she is funny >.<) She had a bf when we met, I started to like her, her bf cheated on her with her best friend, I was right there for support (actually walked 2 1/2 miles to be there with her and make sure she was ok) 4 months later when she was saying she wanted someone else I said that I was here, kinda joking kinda not. Alas though, we had grown too close for her dating tastes, so I set her up with a good friend.
Lol
Yeah, i just need the baaallls to approach her properly, I mean all I know is her name, I dont even know if she has a boyfriend (Im guessing she doesnt because the way she looked at me).
Kind of matters, basiclly not to clingly and not to 'far', maybe talk to her a few times each time
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I dont even know if she has a boyfriend (Im guessing she doesnt because the way she looked at me).
Not always true, there was a chick I met that I was talking too (pretty much flirting with), and i didn't think she had a boyfriend until she said she wished didn't :nono:
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Not always true, there was a chick I met that I was talking too (pretty much flirting with), and i didn't think she had a boyfriend until she said she wished didn't :nono:
I guess your right
Its worth a try anyway
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I guess your right
Its worth a try anyway
of course it is :D what's there to lose?
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Yeah girls are weird like that... They could talk to you, looking like they're interested, etc. And then they have a BF >.>
Like once, I liked a girl, that I talked to a lot and everything, and if I didn't know better, I could've thought that she had an interest in me. But, I knew from other people that she had a BF, before I even talked to her.
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Yeah girls are weird like that... They could talk to you, looking like they're interested, etc. And then they have a BF >.>
Like once, I liked a girl, that I talked to a lot and everything, and if I didn't know better, I could've thought that she had an interest in me. But, I knew from other people that she had a BF, before I even talked to her.
Yeah I know what you mean
But I will talk to her anyway, and if I can, sorta ask if shes single without actually saying "Are you single", but... Lemme try anyway and see what happens, doesnt matter if she says no, loads more fish in the sea
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Bump...
(Also anybody know how I can start a conversation with her without being too creepy lol, like something a normal stranger would say?)
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(Also anybody know how I can start a conversation with her without being too creepy lol, like something a normal stranger would say?)
try and start a conversation about something in common between you :D
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talk to her about her camera! ask her what the features are! or photography in general! DO IT!
sorry... I just drank a 2 liter of mountain dew... very hyper...
WEWT!
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sorry... I just drank a 2 liter of mountain dew... very hyper...
ummmmmmmmm... how do you manage 2 liters in 1 sitting?
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ummmmmmmmm... how do you manage 2 liters in 1 sitting?
Its quite simple... dont worry about your kidney's >.>
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talk to her about her camera! ask her what the features are! or photography in general! DO IT!
sorry... I just drank a 2 liter of mountain dew... very hyper...
WEWT!
I will give it a try, thing is im not sure if she was picked for photography (Like me) or if she picked it, if she picked it, she will most likely be interested in it, if she was picked for it, she is either lucky or just good at that general area, lol, I will just say to her, "Did you get picked for photography? Or did you pick it?", and no matter the response (Apart from, piss off weirdo..), i will reply, "Ahh, what school you from?", if shes one of the 'nice' girls, which im presumming she is, she doesnt look like one of those girls that just tell guys to :censored: off all the time lol, she will reply with an actual answer, then I will probaly introduce myself to her, then ask who she is, then start a proper conversation from there
That a good idea? Or am i stupid?
Also ive been trying to boost my confidence with girls lately, so on the bus to work (Work experience, not actual job lol) ive been trying to 'flirt' (In a way) with girls. There was this really cute scene girl that was on the bus, I noticed she kept smiling and looking at me, so I did the same back at here, and she started to blush lol, I woulda tried to talk to her, but the bus was jam packed so I couldnt even get near her (Stupid people crowing the bus... They lost me a girl...).
And about the hyper thing lol, I know what you mean, today I drank a litre in red bull (All at once), MANNNNNN im hyper, my hands cant keep still lol
Which brings me onto another point, goddam red bull is expensive
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Can't that kill you? Atleast really bad for your health?
Anyway, yeah good idea. Usually start with something you can talk about, introduction, etc.
Even a "hey. what school you come from? Cool I come from X school. I've loved photography since I was X years old.... It's amazing. What about you?"
Pretend she was just a person, you were trying to be friends with. Like if you went to a new school and you were looking for a new friend.
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Can't that kill you? Atleast really bad for your health?
Anyway, yeah good idea. Usually start with something you can talk about, introduction, etc.
Even a "hey. what school you come from? Cool I come from X school. I've loved photography since I was X years old.... It's amazing. What about you?"
Pretend she was just a person, you were trying to be friends with. Like if you went to a new school and you were looking for a new friend.
Lol, doubt it, still here lol
I need somebody to talk to over there so I aint bored throughout too, it will be a double if it were her
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Bump... Tommorow is another try.... Wish me luck
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Bump... Tommorow is another try.... Wish me luck
luck has been granted
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Okay, today has been a bit of a waste for this... We were working on macs all day and she was on other side of the room, and I couldnt go near her without being incredibly creepy, and when we wasnt workin on macs she was always in real large groups of girls
:(
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Okay, today has been a bit of a waste for this... We were working on macs all day and she was on other side of the room, and I couldnt go near her without being incredibly creepy, and when we wasnt workin on macs she was always in real large groups of girls
hey, there's always next week :D
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oh that sucks, best of luck 4 next week. but this time , do get her number coz times runnin out... :)
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oh that sucks, best of luck 4 next week. but this time , do get her number coz times runnin out... :)
Yeah, i am gonna promise myself I will get into a conversation with her
Ive noticed my confidence is a lot better than its been before, lets just say I was talking to a cute girl on the coach for a bit, I just sat down next to her and started talking, before I noticed I just got really... confident... I would have never done that before, i wouldnt of even sat next to her... Although I didn't even ask for a number because im stupid...
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Bumpyboo
Ok, my last chance tommorow...
I will punch my nuts if I dont approach her properly
Then agian, shes from my area anyway (Well sorta) so its likely I might see her while im out, but small chance...
And theres many more fish in the sea...
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give it ur best shot this time , u got nuthin to lose.... if u :censored: up then its not gonna matter coz u might never see her again.........
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hey man, try this. dont think, dont try, dont want. just do. beat nervousness to the punch and just get it over with. dont think about what to say just go to her and say "whats up?" and go with the flow after that ^_^
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OMFG OMFG!!!!!!!!!!
Ive been talking to her all day, and as we were leaving I asked for her phone number, and she gave it to me straight away :D
The first time I have actually asked for a girls number and it worked
Woo
(And she kept going red and smiling whenever we talked :D)
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Awesome ! Gr8 work buddy.... congrats :D
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Awesome ! Gr8 work buddy.... congrats :D
:D
Today has been a great day. First off, I got a really cute girls number, comon, she likes radiohead!!!!
Then afterwards I went to a party, had alcohol for the first time, loads of people got jealous of my new skeleton watch, and started getting to know another 2 cute girls at the party, one I was pretty much playing with the whole day, and during the night she started wearing my jumper (Now it smells like hot girl) and the other girl, got to know her a bit well, and she hugged me :)
So yeah, much better than me sitting at home playing css all day
MANNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN IMMMMMMMMMMM SOOOOOOOOO HAPPPPPPPYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY
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LOL congratz!
Watch your charm though, or you might start attracting girls you don't want ;)
But anyway, it sounds like you've gotten over the self-confidence thing, and that's always good. But don't be a massive player... If there's one girl you really like, try not to randomly flirt with every girl around, especially when that girl is around.
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so how did you start the conversation with her?
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:D
Today has been a great day. First off, I got a really cute girls number, comon, she likes radiohead!!!!
Then afterwards I went to a party, had alcohol for the first time, loads of people got jealous of my new skeleton watch, and started getting to know another 2 cute girls at the party, one I was pretty much playing with the whole day, and during the night she started wearing my jumper (Now it smells like hot girl) and the other girl, got to know her a bit well, and she hugged me :)
So yeah, much better than me sitting at home playing css all day
MANNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN IMMMMMMMMMMM SOOOOOOOOO HAPPPPPPPYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY
Dude ! Things are really goin ur way........ make the best of it but dont flirt with just about every girl, u'll end up hurting the one u really like. btw how bout a pic of that skeleton watch of urs, sounds cool/interesting :D
N as Killok said, how did u start the conversation ?
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LOL congratz!
Watch your charm though, or you might start attracting girls you don't want ;)
But anyway, it sounds like you've gotten over the self-confidence thing, and that's always good. But don't be a massive player... If there's one girl you really like, try not to randomly flirt with every girl around, especially when that girl is around.
Isnt that a good thing?
Yeah it seems to of really boosted my condidence that every girl my age that I have been talking to seems to of liked me (In that way...), and she wasnt at the party, but since I really like her, I will try to stop getting carried away with other girls. Its just that I felt really great hanging out with girls
so how did you start the conversation with her?
She was trying to put they video together and I asked her if she needed help, turns out she did so I helped her and I just started saying, "What school you from?" and then we pretty much started talking all day. Then at the end of the session (A few hours later, I was sitting next to her the whole rest of the day too) as she was walking to the coach, I ran up to her to catch her up and tapped her shoulder and I asked for her number
Dude ! Things are really goin ur way........ make the best of it but dont flirt with just about every girl, u'll end up hurting the one u really like. btw how bout a pic of that skeleton watch of urs, sounds cool/interesting :D
N as Killok said, how did u start the conversation ?
Yeah, I actually thought it was all a dream once I woke up this morning, then I realised that the note with the number on it was right next to me, so I was like, YeAHHHHH :)
Its a Ik Colouring Skeleton
(https://acidmods.com/forum/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fimages.tradera.com%2F102%2F79612102_1.jpg&hash=a160192f3d68d0327ff2356415f9c65bfe0918ce)
I got it off DX for only $20 since I needed a watch quite bad, and I was REALLY suprised with the qualilty of it, and how awesome it looked, its even got a tiny hand inside that spins really fast, and its been running constantly since I first got it, and it seems to be waterproof (Worn it in the shower)
Probaly one of the best £13.50 ($20) I have spent lol
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Congrabulationz
-e-high five-
sounds like your having a great time and thats great to hear...hopefully it will work out good GREAT with that girl ;)
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had alcohol for the first time
Grats on everything else, but are you even 21 yet????
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Alentris... who the hell cares lmao? Everybody drinks underage....
Watch your charm though, or you might start attracting girls you don't want ;)
Isnt that a good thing?
It depends... I mean, if they're hot, then yes :) But if they're :censored:y, generally annoying, and/or ugly, then no. Like there's this one girl, who no matter how hard I try, I can't get rid of. She is SUPER annoying, and won't leave me alone...
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Alentris... who the hell cares lmao? Everybody drinks underage....
Isnt that a good thing?
It depends... I mean, if they're hot, then yes :) But if they're :censored:y, generally annoying, and/or ugly, then no. Like there's this one girl, who no matter how hard I try, I can't get rid of. She is SUPER annoying, and won't leave me alone...
Lol, besides, it was only a few fosters and barcadi breezers
The other girls are quite hot too, and one of them is annoying, but I didnt really even want to get to know her, the other 2, I was hanging around with, playing table tennis with one all day lol, thing is, I dunno if they are single?...
Oh yeah, im getting really confused and worried
That girl that I managed to get the number off of, I was talking to her today, and just making sure, I made sure she was single and she told me she is but shes too busy for a relationship right now. this is why im confused, she gave me her number, we smiled, blushed and, pretty much everything positive at me, but then she says shes too busy for a relationship. Although she is doing her gcse tests this week (Mainly tommorow) so that could be why, and I could ask her for a date this saturday
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If she says no then dont wait forever...
Also i would lay off the booze... Its not worth it...
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Alentris... who the hell cares lmao? Everybody drinks underage....
I don't... I've known firsthand what boozing can do to people.
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same here alentris. I have had the opportunity to drink any form of alcohol i want (even moonshine) and i have always said no. I dont see the point.
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Lol, besides, it was only a few fosters and barcadi breezers
The other girls are quite hot too, and one of them is annoying, but I didnt really even want to get to know her, the other 2, I was hanging around with, playing table tennis with one all day lol, thing is, I dunno if they are single?...
Oh yeah, im getting really confused and worried
That girl that I managed to get the number off of, I was talking to her today, and just making sure, I made sure she was single and she told me she is but shes too busy for a relationship right now. this is why im confused, she gave me her number, we smiled, blushed and, pretty much everything positive at me, but then she says shes too busy for a relationship. Although she is doing her gcse tests this week (Mainly tommorow) so that could be why, and I could ask her for a date this saturday
Yeah girls do that... idk why. I know this one girl, who was basically leading my friend on for a month or so, and then after a while, she starts to show hate and then love, hate then love... It's like she's playing a game with him. After talking with her, she said she likes him a bit, but not THAT much. Sounds like this girl might like you, but might not be ready for a relationship. IDK, try asking her out sometime and see what she says.
As for the booze, I should've worded it better: MOST people drink underage. I don't drink either, but almost everybody I know does so I've just learned to accept it =\
And like Killok says, if she says no, don't keep liking her forever. Eventually move on. Don't move on instantly, but you know, keep your options open. Also, try to find out WHY she says no, if she does.
good luck.
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Hmmmm.... alcohol shouldnt really be a problem if u can control urself, a drink or two never hurt anyone but one should know their limit. I've seen people do things which they would regret their entire lives under the influence of alcohol......
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Agreed. Now weed and stuff is a different thing. Even taken in "small amounts", you could easily get high, and do things you regret. 1-2 beers won't get you drunk.
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yeah tell that to my cousin... he started with beer, decided he wanted something better, started weed, and now he is in a psych ward for attempted suicide by Prozac...
beer is VERY bad.
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Well see, that's the thing. Beer didn't cause it. The weed did. Sure the beer led to it, but the weed led to the craziness. I mean, more than likely he started drinking beer due to friends - which are probably from school. So the school, led to the beer, which led to the weed. But it wasn't the school's fault. You know? Anyway, beer and weed are both bad for you, and really shouldn't be taken at all...
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thats exactly why i am straight edge lol
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lol , i luv my vodka n lime :) but seriously , i take it really rarely and have never tried nor want to try weed , so thats good right ??? :D
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Nah I wasn't taking that much booze, just enough for me to feel it a bit in the morning, but not too much to get drunk
Havent smoked anything before... Lol I doubt I ever will (Cigs and weed) but I actually would want to try weed
Plus life is for living, id rather live like a fun party animal, and have my life shortend than be on my pc all day on /b/ and what not
The amount of new friends I made in that one day... like more friends than I actually have in real life before that
And my confidence, a few weeks ago, I would be too scared to say something to a friend or somebody I didnt know well, but now, I could approach any girl, not caring about rejection, stand up infront of hundreds without shaking (I actually had to do that on that same saturday, big presentation since it was our last day, I think she noticed I was quite confident)
I asked her for a date on saturday (But not in a serious proper date, I was just like, me and my mate and his girlfriend are going cinema on sunday, you coming?) but shes going away for the weekend, I doubt shed be trying to avoid me, but im gonna try agian another time, if she refuses to go out with me, ill find out why, improve myself (If its something that I like and wouldn't want to change, I wont change... like my new hair style, but like clothes, style and all that, maybe...), and move on
But yeah, i realised the point, i dont want to sit at home wasting my life, I want a life
The party wasn't one of those hard core house partys, it was a house party, but a birthday party, for somebody around my age, and since im a friend from far away, I met loads of the local girls, thing is, most of them managed to find me on facebook the next day lol, so if she says no, I could always try on one of those girls... or a cute girl i see on the street
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dude , you are livin the life :) things are goin great 4 u. Enjoy it to the fullest :)
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Yeah you're one lucky dude =D Gratz.
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Okay guys, need help once agian... Now ive got confidence and i can approach a girl, but I dont want to be stuck with just one girl, I want to keep my options open, say she suddenly got a boyfriend and I had no other girls in my life, I would be... i dunno but i wont be very happy, if i had other girls in my life, not only will i be more comfortable around girls but if she were to get a boyfriend i wouldnt give that much of a dam
So my question... What is the best place to meet girls in London (Preferably not going to far, like yoga classes since girls my age dont even do that)?
I heard camden was good, but quite crowded
But yeah, i prefer emo/scene/indie girls (Trying not to be picky though...)
(I had to craziest night last night, somehow, with no girls? I got locked outside my house at 2am, needing to badly take a piss, and my very kind friend allowed me into his house, since i went with him anyway and he told me to come to his, since my mum gets all pissy for rest of the day if she wakes up during the night)
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sry for the threadjack but WOW this weekend was insane... All sunday I paintballed and then saw Wolverine, and then today a guy I know and a couple of chicks in my class just came buy my house to see if I wanted to play soccer, so we did for like an hour and spent the rest of the day just sitting by the lakeside :D . Twas' quite awesome
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sry for the threadjack but WOW this weekend was insane... All sunday I paintballed and then saw Wolverine, and then today a guy I know and a couple of chicks in my class just came buy my house to see if I wanted to play soccer, so we did for like an hour and spent the rest of the day just sitting by the lakeside :D . Twas' quite awesome
LOl too bad nobody cares. =D Not really a score... More a "hang out with chicks" day. My flamer of a "friend" does it all the time. The girls don't even like him =\
Okay guys, need help once agian... Now ive got confidence and i can approach a girl, but I dont want to be stuck with just one girl, I want to keep my options open, say she suddenly got a boyfriend and I had no other girls in my life, I would be... i dunno but i wont be very happy, if i had other girls in my life, not only will i be more comfortable around girls but if she were to get a boyfriend i wouldnt give that much of a dam
So my question... What is the best place to meet girls in London (Preferably not going to far, like yoga classes since girls my age dont even do that)?
I heard camden was good, but quite crowded
But yeah, i prefer emo/scene/indie girls (Trying not to be picky though...)
(I had to craziest night last night, somehow, with no girls? I got locked outside my house at 2am, needing to badly take a piss, and my very kind friend allowed me into his house, since i went with him anyway and he told me to come to his, since my mum gets all pissy for rest of the day if she wakes up during the night)
School's a pretty good place to meet girls =D The mall... everywhere. Malls are nice. Lots of girls, lots of people, things to buy, etc.
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LOl too bad nobody cares. =D Not really a score... More a "hang out with chicks" day. My flamer of a "friend" does it all the time. The girls don't even like him =\
Not trying to even say it's a score, I'm just saying I haven't actually DONE anything for the past couple of weeks and now I've barely been home... It was also weird because I don't really play much soccer, either lol.
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lol @you guys for jacking his thread...
btw phem, emo/scene girls r the best :D
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School's a pretty good place to meet girls =D The mall... everywhere. Malls are nice. Lots of girls, lots of people, things to buy, etc.
My school is almost a boys school, unfortunatly... Barely any girls, and none are really my type
The mall is good idea, but the big one near me, since i live in east london, theres loads of foriegners, and not being racist but im into emo/scene white/oriental girls
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lol @you guys for jacking his thread...
btw phem, emo/scene girls r the best :D
amen to that brutha
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lol @you guys for jacking his thread...
hey, I did apologize in advance for the threadjack :D
btw phem, emo/scene girls r the best :D
scene=yeah... emo=not so much... but hey, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
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Scene is ALMOST emo anyway. Just emo is more... dark. Scene is like, not so dark, but similar styled hair...? Like Ra1n is scene, I think...
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Okay, now im sorta laying off her a bit, a talk with my friend, he said im 'trying too hard' so i stopped talking to her for a while, but now out of the blue she said when we meet up if she can bring a friend (Earlier she kept saying she didnt want to meet for loads of reasons)...
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simple advise bro...BE YOURSELF...
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Okay, now im sorta laying off her a bit, a talk with my friend, he said im 'trying too hard' so i stopped talking to her for a while, but now out of the blue she said when we meet up if she can bring a friend (Earlier she kept saying she didnt want to meet for loads of reasons)...
Nice =D She probably wasn't really comfortable with going on a "date" so bringing a friend might help her feel more comfortable. You should ask if you can bring a friend too, to make it more comfortable for you. Also, going on too strong (e.x. following her around, talking to her a lot even if you have nothing to say, asking her to hang out all the time, etc.) might not be a good thing, but if you just stop talking to her altogether and play "hard to get" then she might think that you don't like her anymore or something.
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simple advise bro...BE YOURSELF...
Ill play it cool but still be myself :)
Nice =D She probably wasn't really comfortable with going on a "date" so bringing a friend might help her feel more comfortable. You should ask if you can bring a friend too, to make it more comfortable for you. Also, going on too strong (e.x. following her around, talking to her a lot even if you have nothing to say, asking her to hang out all the time, etc.) might not be a good thing, but if you just stop talking to her altogether and play "hard to get" then she might think that you don't like her anymore or something.
True, thing is, i dont know if she is just playing hard to get or what, I mean, does she like me? And apparently to most girls it isn't about looks, im just confused, she gives me her phone number, my obvious intent in asking for it is I wanted to get to know her better and maybe date her, but after talking to her she says shes too busy for a relationship... then she talks to me, like as if she was interested in me, if i start a convo with her, she would never text me or talk to me msn or anything any other time, I dont know if she is just being polite or what not, then after not talking to her for like a week, she texted me asking when we meet up her mate can come, so this is why im confused, at one point, I have the feeling she is trying to ignore me, and doesnt want to even hang out with me, and then suddenly she wants to hang out, but shes doing it agian...
girls are bloody confusing sometimes
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True, thing is, i dont know if she is just playing hard to get or what, I mean, does she like me? And apparently to most girls it isn't about looks, im just confused, she gives me her phone number, my obvious intent in asking for it is I wanted to get to know her better and maybe date her, but after talking to her she says shes too busy for a relationship... then she talks to me, like as if she was interested in me, if i start a convo with her, she would never text me or talk to me msn or anything any other time, I dont know if she is just being polite or what not, then after not talking to her for like a week, she texted me asking when we meet up her mate can come, so this is why im confused, at one point, I have the feeling she is trying to ignore me, and doesnt want to even hang out with me, and then suddenly she wants to hang out, but shes doing it agian...
:D hormones, my friend
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Girls do that ALL the time. They love playing with your head... Gotta get used to it man. =D
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Girls do that ALL the time. They love playing with your head... Gotta get used to it man. =D
yeah, like one day they'll flirt with you a TON, and the next day when you try talking to them, they ignore you. Basically, It means that they like you, but they're not sure if they want to go out with you.
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yeah, like one day they'll flirt with you a TON, and the next day when you try talking to them, they ignore you. Basically, It means that they like you, but they're not sure if they want to go out with you.
I was hoping that was the case, I would like to go out with her, but I dont care if she says no because she could always help me get girls :) like in that movie where the geeks build a robot girl, and get her to get them girls, forgot what its called though
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so whats the current scenario ? You going out with her or not ?
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so whats the current scenario ? You going out with her or not ?
Well, she wants to meet up with me, but shes busy for the next few weeks and plus im out of cash for about a month
Im not going out with her yet, i havent had the chance to spend a day out with her yet :3
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oh well wait till you guys can have a great time out but do keep talking to her sometimes...
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oh well wait till you guys can have a great time out but do keep talking to her sometimes...
Will do, i was talking to her today