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Advice On the Opposite gender(ex)
« on: September 30, 2009, 01:54:00 PM »
okie dokies...
So a few months ago, I broke up with my gf because she started ignoring me, and did some weird :censored:(not drugs or any thing ba, just strange) and now she wants to get back together, but idk...
« Last Edit: September 30, 2009, 01:56:40 PM by treemty »

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Re: Advice On the Opposite gender(ex)
« Reply #1 on: September 30, 2009, 02:34:30 PM »
i remember this relationship, and im still not Dr. Phil but i say you just see if shes worth it at this point, cuz she might just end up doing the same thing again.

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Re: Advice On the Opposite gender(ex)
« Reply #2 on: September 30, 2009, 06:44:48 PM »
Ditto, you explained this to me too.

Don't do it man.

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Re: Advice On the Opposite gender(ex)
« Reply #3 on: September 30, 2009, 07:32:11 PM »
Just tell her straight up that you don't trust her, then see what she says.

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Re: Advice On the Opposite gender(ex)
« Reply #4 on: September 30, 2009, 10:10:10 PM »
I dont go for second tries after the first time sorry to bad its over. Sounds harsh but if it doesnt work out the first usually doesnt the second time.

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Re: Advice On the Opposite gender(ex)
« Reply #5 on: October 01, 2009, 04:16:39 AM »
take it while its good, if she starts messing up again start seening other people, show her no attention, know in the back of your mind it is just a booty call, and get what you can out of it.

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Re: Advice On the Opposite gender(ex)
« Reply #6 on: October 01, 2009, 05:55:43 AM »
dude take my advice
ask her out on the movies and ask whats up
talk about stuff your future, talents, funny stuff, news
remember (unlike matt's advice)
if you see her with other people ask her who's her new friend
if you know the guy don't over react get acquainted with him
see if he's worthy of being her lover
don't tell him about your gf and you
ask him if he has a gf if he tells you his gf is your gf meet up with both of them (plan it as a coincidence) and know the truth
now if she says she has another tell her "if you like him its okay he's a good man"
if she asks you why just say "because i love you thats why I'm letting you go"

tip:make some friendly jokes about it
    don't give her consequences , dont threaten her and see her as a friend

 

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