Author Topic: Damn... (Read 4100 times)

Rory · « **on:** April 22, 2008, 08:13:18 AM »

Teh Rory is sad...

Yesterday I asked this girl I really liked out...
She said yes. We spent the evening at her place. On my way back from college today I got a SMS message...

"I know its only been a day nearly but i cant do this- im still in love with my ex boyfriend. Hope u understand

im sorry. Kat"

The worst thing was, I didn't do anything wrong, no experience for me to learn from. All I have gained from it is depression.

This hurts, alot D:

*FuFa · « **Reply #1 on:** April 22, 2008, 08:24:27 AM »

I already offered you the only two solutions left you can do, which I won't post here for not-childfriendly reasons.

Tec_ · « **Reply #2 on:** April 22, 2008, 08:42:36 AM »

you may gain a little incite for asking for help hear. but that doesn't change the fact that there is nothing we can do about it we can sit hear and tell you let it go, get over it, go talk to her ect...

its up to you how you choose to deal with this and how you choose to let it affect you.

all i could say is go talk to her and explain it. speaking from personal experience not coming out and being truthful with how i feel about girls is whats always haunted me.

so its up to you what you choose to do next.

dedafmonteur · « **Reply #3 on:** April 22, 2008, 09:36:06 AM »

well, thats life....

live,learn,love,die

DubbleDutch · « **Reply #4 on:** April 22, 2008, 09:54:26 AM »

Quote from: dedafmonteur on April 22, 2008, 09:36:06 AM

well, thats life....

live,learn,love,die

you forgot mod

but

all i can say is, just act normal with that girl like it is a normal friend. she said she is still in love with her ex boyfriend and you should respect her choices

Rory · « **Reply #5 on:** April 22, 2008, 10:12:05 AM »

Quote from: *FuFa on April 22, 2008, 08:24:27 AM

I already offered you the only two solutions left you can do, which I won't post here for not-childfriendly reasons.

Indeed you did :P.

Quote from: tec_in_the_making on April 22, 2008, 08:42:36 AM

you may gain a little incite for asking for help hear. but that doesn't change the fact that there is nothing we can do about it we can sit hear and tell you let it go, get over it, go talk to her ect...

its up to you how you choose to deal with this and how you choose to let it affect you.

all i could say is go talk to her and explain it. speaking from personal experience not coming out and being truthful with how i feel about girls is whats always haunted me.

so its up to you what you choose to do next.

I know it's my choice. I'm just not a happy chappy at the moment...

Quote from: dedafmonteur on April 22, 2008, 09:36:06 AM

well, thats life....

live,learn,love,die

Gee, life sure does suck :P

Quote from: DubbleDutch on April 22, 2008, 09:54:26 AM

you forgot mod

but all i can say is, just act normal with that girl like it is a normal friend. she said she is still in love with her ex boyfriend and you should respect her choices

Indeed he did.

I guess...
It's weird though... I really don't get why she likes him.
He is a total ass to her, ignores her, treats her like

. The amount of times she has been majorly depressed over him. Tell me that is right.
I respect her choice. I don't understand it though

.

MattZani · « **Reply #6 on:** April 22, 2008, 11:14:08 AM »

Kill the other guy, then he wont matter!

Seriously leave it be, when she realizes try again, atleast yours actually broke up with him >.<

dedafmonteur · « **Reply #7 on:** April 22, 2008, 11:28:35 AM »

well,

you allways got me

Skullmaster · « **Reply #8 on:** April 22, 2008, 12:03:16 PM »

EWWW... lol

Rory · « **Reply #9 on:** April 22, 2008, 12:11:54 PM »

I called her.
She didnt sound sorry...

Am I being unnessessarily hopeful by thinking she is unsure who she loves?

Damn, I'M SO :censored:ING CONFUSED! :'(

Tec_ · « **Reply #10 on:** April 22, 2008, 12:50:47 PM »

Quote from: Rory on April 22, 2008, 12:11:54 PM

Damn, I'M SO :censored:ING CONFUSED! :'(

welcome to life / women

Rory · « **Reply #11 on:** April 22, 2008, 01:16:18 PM »

Great welcome :P
Lol.

T3KN1K4L · « **Reply #12 on:** April 22, 2008, 01:27:12 PM »

Not to laugh at you, but it is kinda funny looking back at how much younger people make out of relationships... I mean, when I was younger, I too thought something like this was important enough to become depressed, but as I grew older I realized it doesn't matter... Right now I have a friend that is getting married soon just because he is so afraid of being alone the rest of his life, does he love her? I have no idea, but I do know his fear of being alone has made him oblivious to her cheating on him... I personally have been engaged 3 times before I was 21, for various reasons, but again as I get older, I see how asinine it really was. Not all actions have a reaction that can be seen instantly, you may go months, years, or even your whole life before you notice something, think back and ultimately learn something...

TaSlAyEr · « **Reply #13 on:** April 22, 2008, 01:35:30 PM »

Quote from: Rory on April 22, 2008, 08:13:18 AM

Teh Rory is sad...

Yesterday I asked this girl I really liked out...
She said yes. We spent the evening at her place. On my way back from college today I got a SMS message...

"I know its only been a day nearly but i cant do this- im still in love with my ex boyfriend. Hope u understand im sorry. Kat"

The worst thing was, I didn't do anything wrong, no experience for me to learn from. All I have gained from it is depression.

This hurts, alot D:

damn that gota hurt man

Timmy · « **Reply #14 on:** April 23, 2008, 03:30:12 AM »

i agree with t3k (although im not quite as old as him or as higher posessor of beardy awesomness)

but yeah, to be kinder, it hurts not but no need to get all depressed, the thing you can learn from this is she's obviously not worth the depression if she doesn't care at all

dedafmonteur · « **Reply #15 on:** April 23, 2008, 10:04:22 AM »

well......

Deda wi.l help you all out of your dreams with his prase he just made:

better a woman in your shed, than a horse in your bed

AIGHT!

Canadajames · « **Reply #16 on:** April 23, 2008, 04:24:32 PM »

Quote from: Rory on April 22, 2008, 10:12:05 AM

Indeed you did :P.

I know it's my choice. I'm just not a happy chappy at the moment...

Gee, life sure does suck :P

Indeed he did.

I guess...
It's weird though... I really don't get why she likes him.
He is a total ass to her, ignores her, treats her like . The amount of times she has been majorly depressed over him. Tell me that is right.
I respect her choice. I don't understand it though .

It sounds like shes one of those girls who just needs drama in here life to get by like half of my school coincidentally. if shes worth it she'll come back.