Author Topic: so i messed up pretty bad... (Read 8083 times)

Kilokk · « **on:** January 06, 2010, 11:09:26 PM »

well i lied to my girl (twas quite a big lie) and she found out. i was actually planning on telling her about it, but she found out before i could. we were working to go back to normal... but i :censored:ing lied again! THE SAME GOD DAMN STORY! i dont know what to do about this guys... im a :censored:ing moron...

jrfhoutx · « **Reply #1 on:** January 06, 2010, 11:51:34 PM »

what was the lie? did you cheat on her or something?

Kilokk · « **Reply #2 on:** January 06, 2010, 11:53:42 PM »

dk if you remember the topic from a few months ago, when i wanted to leave her from another girl. we got back together after i banged the other chick, and i lied about what we did... she started talking to the girl, (who broke up with her man because she still likes me and that my fault apparently) and the truth came out literally RIGHT before i told her... and then i tried to lie to her again without realizing it >.<

jrfhoutx · « **Reply #3 on:** January 06, 2010, 11:58:53 PM »

lol, damn, at least you didn't cheat on her tho... don't know what to tell ya man...

Kilokk · « **Reply #4 on:** January 07, 2010, 12:01:52 AM »

lol i hope that we can work this out...

jrfhoutx · « **Reply #5 on:** January 07, 2010, 12:04:35 AM »

don't see why you wouldn't be able to, not really a deal breaker...

Kilokk · « **Reply #6 on:** January 07, 2010, 12:07:49 AM »

she REALLY hates liars...

Luke · « **Reply #7 on:** January 07, 2010, 12:55:42 AM »

You REALLY brang this upon yourself, and you should REALLY get out of it your OWN way.

Kilokk · « **Reply #8 on:** January 07, 2010, 01:03:44 AM »

and now someone seems to have killed themselves...

dedafmonteur · « **Reply #9 on:** January 07, 2010, 02:29:38 AM »

who did? your girlfriend?

just be fair to her, if she cant accept the truth than it's not worth it.

Kilokk · « **Reply #10 on:** January 07, 2010, 02:49:26 AM »

no the other girls boyfriend... he couldnt accept that she wanted me while she was with him... and she blames me for that. how is who she likes my fault?

dedafmonteur · « **Reply #11 on:** January 07, 2010, 03:04:31 AM »

she made the choice to have sex with you, so dont blame yourself.

and the dude who killed himself is a

ing retard, why the hell kill yourself because of love.
thats jsut stupid.

PspKicks316 · « **Reply #12 on:** January 07, 2010, 03:42:42 AM »

The other girls boyfriend should be taken out of the picture, and it seems he has.
Obviously he was doing something wrong and you were doing something right to have her like you over him. +1, be happy for that one. Seriously.
I don't remember if you said you were at a party/drunk or not...which does change things.
If your girl can't handle the fact that you had sex with someone while you guys were broken up, then she's not worth the time and stress she'll give you.
My advice would be go for the other girl. She likes you, you can cheer her up about her old boyfriend, and you guys can have it good.
Your "girl" needs to grow up. This is the real world and things happen. She lost you for that time, and you took that as an advantage to hook up with the other girl. That's neither your fault or the other girls. Your girl lost her chance, it's her fault and she should be mad/upset at herself and not you. If she wants you bad enough that she's that upset about this, then she should take you back anyway.

All else fails, tell her you got drugged with roofies and were at a party drunk off your ass and lied to protect her feelings.

OR, be that guy who shows her this thread to show her you care enough about her that you throw yourself out in public asking for advice and help. It works.

Kilokk · « **Reply #13 on:** January 07, 2010, 04:25:54 AM »

lol funny enough she is a member of acidmods, but she hasnt been on here in months (only made like 3 posts but meh) and i want the other girl about as much as i want bubonic plague. i think everything is ok, i will keep you guys posted...

dedafmonteur · « **Reply #14 on:** January 07, 2010, 05:10:38 AM »

drink beer, it helps.

Modded Matt · « **Reply #15 on:** January 07, 2010, 05:14:22 AM »

dont use cesored words in a title. this is a family site even though the word did not come through, it is completly clear what your saying.

jrfhoutx · « **Reply #16 on:** January 07, 2010, 09:25:42 AM »

you can't be serious that this other chick's ex-boyfriend actually committed suicide... really?

Kilokk · « **Reply #17 on:** January 07, 2010, 10:10:32 AM »

seems that way... paramedics didnt think he would make it, though he never stopped breathing, they said he lost too much blood...

sorry about that matt... it was just one HELL of a night when i posted this...

dedafmonteur · « **Reply #18 on:** January 07, 2010, 10:11:42 AM »

yeh, its kinda lame that he killed himself for a girlfriend.
ive had like 6 girlsfriend from the age of 15. you dont see mee crying or commiting suiecide when they have sex with an other dude. i dont take it that serious.

maybe a strange question but how did he do it?

Kilokk · « **Reply #19 on:** January 07, 2010, 10:13:51 AM »

in short... the way a true emo would >.>

jrfhoutx · « **Reply #20 on:** January 07, 2010, 10:22:53 AM »

Quote from: dedafmonteur on January 07, 2010, 10:11:42 AM

you dont see mee crying or commiting suiecide when they have sex with an other dude. i dont take it that serious.

No crying, but I hear you whine about it all the time...

He'll live if he slit his wrists, most cutters cut the in wrong direction... most people who attempt suicide don't really want to die they just want the attention...

one last thing... totally an opinion... emo kids are the gayest kids i've ever met in my life (and that's saying something cause i've known a lot of LARP kids and goth kids), but god damned if the fashion isn't hot as

on chicks... lol

Kilokk · « **Reply #21 on:** January 07, 2010, 10:28:04 AM »

honestly its become a turn off as of late... there is so much drama in my life since i have met these people...

idk if he cut it the right way or not, but the wounds were deep enough to make him pass out, and idk if they stopped the bleeding in time...

dedafmonteur · « **Reply #22 on:** January 07, 2010, 10:31:18 AM »

omg, thats so.....

i dont get it why people do this to themselves...

Kilokk · « **Reply #23 on:** January 07, 2010, 10:32:02 AM »

i honestly dont get it either...

dedafmonteur · « **Reply #24 on:** January 07, 2010, 10:34:34 AM »

@ jrf, thats ebcause i reaslly like a girl and its taking way to long...lol

@ kilokk, my mother told me that if he really passed out it means that he lost so much blood his body went into a shock. if he didnt get blood and help fast than yes, he will die.

my mother worked in the hospital for 15 years (first emergency)

jrfhoutx · « **Reply #25 on:** January 07, 2010, 10:44:36 AM »

Quote from: Kilokk on January 07, 2010, 10:28:04 AM

honestly its become a turn off as of late... there is so much drama in my life since i have met these people...

idk if he cut it the right way or not, but the wounds were deep enough to make him pass out, and idk if they stopped the bleeding in time...

emo kids are lame (and I mean the actual attitude not the fashion, the fashion is kinda lame too...) and take

way to freakin serious... drama is lame, high school drama is even lamer (you'll realize in hindsight when you're out of school just how lame it really was), ditch those people they're not worth the hassle and drama...

as for blood loss, the average adult has around 8-10 pints of blood in their body. you can loose around 15% and not notice any effect (hence why you can donate a pint and not have any ill effect) at around 25-30% you'll start to go into shock (hence why giving 2 pints makes you feel woozy and makes you look a little pale and get cold) at around 30-40% you will be in shock, past 40% loss you will be in shock and your body can not recover on it's own, you will need medical attention quickly or you will die, but it is recoverable with medical attention... now what will make you pass out is not the blood loss but the loss of blood pressure, for some it takes very little blood loss (like 10%) for others about 30%...

Quote from: dedafmonteur on January 07, 2010, 10:34:34 AM

@ jrf, thats ebcause i reaslly like a girl and its taking way to long...lol

I don't care what the reason is, you still whine about it like a little girl...

dedafmonteur · « **Reply #26 on:** January 07, 2010, 10:50:11 AM »

Quote from: jrfhoutx on January 07, 2010, 10:44:36 AM

I don't care what the reason is, you still whine about it like a little girl...

show me some love dude:(

rofl im kidding ill stop whining, not that i did the last few days

jrfhoutx · « **Reply #27 on:** January 07, 2010, 10:52:15 AM »

Nothing but love baby...

I'm just messing with you dude, you know me...

lol

Kilokk · « **Reply #28 on:** January 07, 2010, 11:06:24 AM »

trust me, i have known the lame-ness of highschool drama since junior high...

SN!P3R · « **Reply #29 on:** January 07, 2010, 11:39:12 AM »

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Author Topic: so i messed up pretty bad... (Read 8083 times)