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=> Discussion Boards => Spam & Chat => Topic started by: Kilokk on March 19, 2009, 12:11:54 AM
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why do people have to die before there time? why do people kill themselves? why did my friend kill himself over my sister?
3 questions i am pondering at the moment
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What happened!
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1. There is no such thing as before there time.
2. People kill them selves because they are cowards that can't stand living.
3. Some people just can get a grip.
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wtf ! A guy killed himself over ur sis ? Such people really need to get a grip on reality. I've realised the hard way. Dude sometimes things get really hard n difficult to bear. Its in times like these that death seems like a very viable option.
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1. There is no such thing as before there time.
2. People kill them selves because they are cowards that can't stand living.
3. Some people just can get a grip.
thanks... thats what i need right now... he hasnt been dead 3 hours yet... though i guess i cant blame you... thats what i think as well...
@justin my sister and her bf broke up, she got drunk last friday and made out with him, on MY bed no less, then they were talking on the phone earlier (bout 1 am est) about how she wanted to just be friends and she heard him choking and drop the phone... she and her... bf (dont know if they are together again or not) went to see if he was ok and they found him hanging in his garage...
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thanks... thats what i need right now... he hasnt been dead 3 hours yet... though i guess i cant blame you... thats what i think as well...
@justin my sister and her bf broke up, she got drunk last friday and made out with him, on MY bed no less, then they were talking on the phone earlier (bout 1 am est) about how she wanted to just be friends and she heard him choking and drop the phone... she and her... bf (dont know if they are together again or not) went to see if he was ok and they found him hanging in his garage...
it dosnt soundlike he tho that one threw
she was on the phone
howlong where they going out?
age ect.
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they were never actually dating... he loved her... he was 19 she was 20... i dont think he thought about it at all... he was kinda like the guy on the left :drunk: he would pick you up when you were down...
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yea but this guy seems like he had problems or he was shallow
i am for one of thoskinda guy and i know that theres otehrs out there and dont go hangin my self
i hope ur sis dont think its her fault
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i think you should just go n talk it out with your sister that it isnt her fault or anything. stuff like this can have a very negative impact.........
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What I said may seem harsh. But the world is a harsh place, Its Better to learn it now then later. Im sorry you lost a friend. I have to lost a close friend also. Tho its not anyones fault. all you can do now is comfort his family and your sister. Since you were his friend.
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true, you need to just calm down a bit. Go comfort ur sister and the guy's family. I lost a close friend this february. She committed suicide, so i know how it feels.
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yeah... all his friends (bout 20) are comin over to be together... ive never met his family... didnt know him more than a month but he was a great friend... he was the go to guy... i was gonna teach him how to play guitar... he learned sweet home alabama in about 6 minutes... he was so excited to have learned how to play...
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now ur making me feel sad too. Bringing back memories of my lost friend..... I really think you should go n meet his family once.
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id like to... from what my sister said they arent doing well... but i dont think they want to see anyone right now...
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k. In that case , just give them some time. How's ur sister taking this though ? Hope she's not feeling guilty or anything......
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she is admiting herself to a mental institute sometime today or tomorrow... she has suicidal tendancies...
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!!! Because of this incident or otherwise. Man, i've gone down that road..... Never again.
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she has been on the brink many times...
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has anyone noticed that 90% of the post here are by news team members?
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yeah thats true, wierd huh ?
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cause news team has open enrollment...
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yeah, i guess so. What does it take to become a mod though ? Just asking :)
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not asking about it... unspoken rule... be helpful, and follow the rules
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ok ! Thanks won't mention it again :)
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Sorry to hear about your friend. my cousin killed himself 3 yrs ago, it was so unbelievably selfish that you cant help to be both sad and angry. Hang in there the anger will subside and sadness will take over eventually.
Suicide is a permanent solution for a temporary problem. Like I said in the tatoo post for the several years after you leave highschool your world will change, sometimes things can seem dire, but it will never be so bad that life after that time isnt worth living. Suicide is selfish, it is the easy way out. IMHO most people think that people will feel sorry if they off themselves, which is the exact opposite emotion that suicide provokes.
I hope that our members realize that our community is here for you, and if you ever have these feelings it is natural and you need to deal with them cuz if you push them aside you may end up with a permanent solution.
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well said chives........... It really is a very selfish thing to do..............
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thanks chives that is good to know ^_^ nice to know that at least SOMEONE is there for us if we have these feelings ^_^
selfish yes... stupid yes... angering yes... and unfortunately, being a christian, i dont believe he will have a happy afterlife either... :censored:ty day... :censored:tttty day...
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you know... i just realized that i shouldve called 911... i couldve saved him... wtf is wrong with me... forgetting something that has been etched in my brain for about 15 years...
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but you didn't know , did you ?
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i did know... my sister came downstairs crying cuz he hung himself while on the phone wit her... we couldve called 911...
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NO NO NO! There is nothing wrong with you, sure plenty of people could have saved him, but there is no use in dwelling on it. Thinking about what you could have done is just going to make you feel worse. He was the only one involved in making his decision and no one else.
Please do not blame yourself, there is only one person to blame and he is gone now. Dwelling on what could've gone differently will not help the healing process at all. Hang in there man, these will be some difficult days to come.
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man, don't worry yourself over it now. When a person is distressed or in shock/panic its really difficult to think straight. Sometimes you just forget the obvious.....
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thanks guys... its just that i know 911 is there and forgetting it is like forgetting the grass is green...
i know its not good to dwell on it but its just a big GOD DAMNIT! situation for me...
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just try to forget it. You really can't do anything now. Now you'll never forget it again.....
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yeah... still kinda expect a text or something from him saying that it was all a joke...
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Well whatever you do, hang in and don't blame yourself.
Everyone forgets everything. I do especially.
If there's anything you feel you should do, it's try to comfort your sister, and DON'T mention anything about being able to prevent something.
I had a friend commit suicide actually about a year ago this month....
She was driven to it by some [insert many long irritating colourful words] jerkwad of a guy over the internet.
Comfort your sister. You both need it.
And we're all here for ya.
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yes you should go and comfort your sister and then come back to your nice big virtual family which is always there for you :)
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she went to the hospital...
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don't blame yourself, it wasn't your fault. He thought it was the only solution, but it wasn't
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now the anger is setting in
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is your sister feeling any better ? Its alright to be angry, what he did was very stupid and selfish.
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idk... she isnt home...
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the funeral is tomorrow...
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i hope you are going
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oh hellz yeah!!!
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thats good. Ur sis, she still in the hospital ?
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nah... she is out and was there... his parents are gonna give me his guitar... they are REALLY nice people ^_^ i wish i couldve met them under different circumstances... glad to have met them at all though ^_^
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omg, if i just glance over this page really fast, it looks like a octa post. someone else than news team post here!
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@ sniper- the news team guys stick together :) lol
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:censored: Man.. I Have Just found Out My Friends Dad Hung Himself Last Night... :fear:
Life Really Does Suck...