Author Topic: My first proper date? What should i do? (Read 7363 times)

PhenomenalDesigns · « **on:** August 22, 2009, 06:54:08 PM »

Ok, ive worked so hard on getting numbers and approaching, and successfully got a really cute girls number, talking to her, she seems to like me alot and i like her quite a bit. To cut things short, we are going on a 'date' at the cinema, never been on a proper date before, any quick advice?

also im not retarded, i know some stuff about girls (So don't say, brush yo teeth)

Luke · « **Reply #1 on:** August 22, 2009, 07:00:17 PM »

Don't be nervous, it will just make things worst.
be a gentleman, talk about things she likes not what you like.
Don't get carried off with things. Don't be late, Girls hate it if they get there before you
and they have to wait.

ryan0 · « **Reply #2 on:** August 22, 2009, 07:01:38 PM »

Just go with the flow man,don't go see a movie with too much of anything,go and see a kinda crap one,because then she won't pay much if any attention to it,initiate conversation and in 10 mins you'll be ripping her underwear off with your teeth.
Also,brush yo teeth.

PhenomenalDesigns · « **Reply #3 on:** August 22, 2009, 07:08:38 PM »

Quote from: Lucas on August 22, 2009, 07:00:17 PM

Don't be nervous, it will just make things worst.
be a gentleman, talk about things she likes not what you like.
Don't get carried off with things. Don't be late, Girls hate it if they get there before you
and they have to wait.

We like the same things luckily lol, but ill listen to her more than she listens to me?, ill leave extra early in secret

lol

Quote from: ryan0 on August 22, 2009, 07:01:38 PM

Just go with the flow man,don't go see a movie with too much of anything,go and see a kinda crap one,because then she won't pay much if any attention to it,initiate conversation and in 10 mins you'll be ripping her underwear off with your teeth.
Also,brush yo teeth.

I said lets just go there, and she can pick a film because, well I didn't know what to choose. Luckily ive seen all the exciting films in the cinema so were bound to see a crap one lol

Hopefully we wont be watching the film if you get what I mean

Also were going to find something to do afterwards too, maybe

Also that was some fast respone, Acidmods Girl Help Instant Hotline

Luke · « **Reply #4 on:** August 22, 2009, 07:16:33 PM »

Quote from: PhenomenalDesigns on August 22, 2009, 07:08:38 PM

We like the same things luckily lol, but ill listen to her more than she listens to me?, ill leave extra early in secret lol
I said lets just go there, and she can pick a film because, well I didn't know what to choose. Luckily ive seen all the exciting films in the cinema so were bound to see a crap one lol

Hopefully we wont be watching the film if you get what I mean

Also were going to find something to do afterwards too, maybe

Also that was some fast respone, Acidmods Girl Help Instant Hotline

Tend to let her talk more, you don't want to bore her out of all your stories and hobbies, but don't be too quite either.

Take to her lunch, dinner w/e after.. talk
walk home or what ever you want to do.
and hopefully all goes well and she ask's if you want to come in

.

& at your service XD

PhenomenalDesigns · « **Reply #5 on:** August 22, 2009, 07:24:52 PM »

Quote from: Lucas on August 22, 2009, 07:16:33 PM

Tend to let her talk more, you don't want to bore her out of all your stories and hobbies, but don't be too quite either.

Take to her lunch, dinner w/e after.. talk
walk home or what ever you want to do.
and hopefully all goes well and she ask's if you want to come in .

& at your service XD

Might stop at some coffee shop i know, i go there quite a bit for a good talk

And ill try to be constantly funny all the time? Most of the time anyway

You guys sure do know alot about girls

P3nnyw1se · « **Reply #6 on:** August 22, 2009, 07:30:34 PM »

Don't go overboard on being funny. Unless she likes total clowns, xP

scott · « **Reply #7 on:** August 22, 2009, 07:36:22 PM »

Bring a condom.

alentris · « **Reply #8 on:** August 22, 2009, 07:43:17 PM »

Quote from: scott on August 22, 2009, 07:36:22 PM

Bring a condom.

not necessary, man. Let's keep this conversation PG...

But be sure to put your arm around her, it really can set the mood.

scott · « **Reply #9 on:** August 22, 2009, 08:13:32 PM »

Telling someone to bring a condom should be rated G

Protection first.

alentris · « **Reply #10 on:** August 22, 2009, 08:23:14 PM »

Quote from: scott on August 22, 2009, 08:13:32 PM

Telling someone to bring a condom should be rated G

Protection first.

true, but I bet you've never been yelled at for having one in your wallet.

DarkShot · « **Reply #11 on:** August 22, 2009, 08:31:37 PM »

FYI peeps, scott does have a very, very valid point.

Anywhooo, be sure to have enough money to pay for the both of you for the entire night. Don't go bankrupt, and don't actually pay for the entire night unless you feel like doing so, but do something like buy her movie ticket or drink. Treat her out. It's always the thought that matters. Another thing is to make eye contact while chatting at a place like a coffee shop. Shifting your gaze around is fine, but during that time, she's the center of attention, so pay attention. That being said, don't stare her down either lol. Be comfortable, be relaxed, and be who you are.

Oh, and bring TicTacs too. Brushin yo teeth only does so much.

PhenomenalDesigns · « **Reply #12 on:** August 23, 2009, 07:50:54 AM »

Ooo im so in there, i have condoms in my room but i don't think ill need them, YET!

PspKicks316 · « **Reply #13 on:** August 23, 2009, 08:36:55 AM »

Protip: If she asks you if you want to go back to her place, do it.

PhenomenalDesigns · « **Reply #14 on:** August 23, 2009, 10:40:17 AM »

Quote from: PspKicks316 on August 23, 2009, 08:36:55 AM

Protip: If she asks you if you want to go back to her place, do it.

Will do

lewson · « **Reply #15 on:** August 23, 2009, 10:41:51 AM »

Anything your told now you wont remember on the day. Just be yourself.

PhenomenalDesigns · « **Reply #16 on:** August 23, 2009, 02:53:27 PM »

Quote from: lewson on August 23, 2009, 10:41:51 AM

Anything your told now you wont remember on the day. Just be yourself.

Lol, i will remember some stuff

Also if i mess up, i dont think she would mind, since im sure she likes me, because she asked me if we wanted to go out (And i barely knew her) and just us two, but then i picked cinema because i was out of ideas

4dP · « **Reply #17 on:** August 23, 2009, 07:36:37 PM »

the cinema is a safe choice next should try a place both of you haven't went before so you can experience it together. so if your stuck you got something new to talk about. be yourself but be your best self.

Jumbo · « **Reply #18 on:** August 23, 2009, 07:42:37 PM »

1. ALWAYS have a condom in ur wallet. Always.

2. Brush yo teeth.

PhenomenalDesigns · « **Reply #19 on:** August 24, 2009, 04:05:35 AM »

Quote from: 4dP on August 23, 2009, 07:36:37 PM

the cinema is a safe choice next should try a place both of you haven't went before so you can experience it together. so if your stuck you got something new to talk about. be yourself but be your best self.

Also i picked cinema because I was out of ideas, but then agian in a we she picked it, i happened to just mention it

Quote from: Jumbo on August 23, 2009, 07:42:37 PM

1. ALWAYS have a condom in ur wallet. Always.

2. Brush yo teeth.

I think i will carry one just incase, highly doubt i will need it though, and yes i will brush my teeth

Im pretty sure she likes me but is unsure that i like her back, you what i mean? I was talking to her yesterday and she said she has habit of holding the persons shes with hand's whenever in a crowded area, and we're going to a crowded area. im not sure if shes just saying that because she actually does, which is just weird, or if she wants to hold my hand (hopefully the second one)

Also its not the same girl as the girl I met at the uni,

EDIT: Okay, just got back home, i didnt get to kiss her but i think kissing is a bit weird when you see somebody properly for the first time, although we did hold hands alot and held each other alot, so, im guessing she must like me, if she didnt then shes just super crazy lol

im so in there

SN!P3R · « **Reply #20 on:** August 24, 2009, 07:56:05 PM »

Ask for anal sex on the first date. The only way to a girls heart is through her ass

Reaper · « **Reply #21 on:** August 24, 2009, 08:32:06 PM »

Quote from: SN!P3R on August 24, 2009, 07:56:05 PM

Ask for anal sex on the first date. The only way to a girls heart is through her ass

True that!

Blazinkaos · « **Reply #22 on:** August 25, 2009, 12:51:21 AM »

The first day isnt allows about sex.

Just be chilled and show her a good time. Talk to her and listen to her and pay attention to her more like in the eyes are not down.

gamerdude767 · « **Reply #23 on:** August 25, 2009, 01:27:26 AM »

she is wet for you buddy :P WOO!

PhenomenalDesigns · « **Reply #24 on:** August 25, 2009, 04:00:04 AM »

She asked if i can come out with her today aswell, maybe today i can try for a kiss?

ProperBritish · « **Reply #25 on:** August 25, 2009, 04:33:24 AM »

go nuts.

ooh, ask her at the end, 'do you mind if i kiss you?'

such a turn on, very romantic.

PhenomenalDesigns · « **Reply #26 on:** August 25, 2009, 04:50:25 AM »

Quote from: ProperBritish on August 25, 2009, 04:33:24 AM

go nuts.

ooh, ask her at the end, 'do you mind if i kiss you?'

such a turn on, very romantic.

I will try that, if we don't have one of those moments when your supposed to kiss before the end lol

4dP · « **Reply #27 on:** August 25, 2009, 05:27:43 AM »

thats ok but that might lead to rejection

try mystery's kiss close:

Quote

You ask, "Would you like to kiss me?

If she says yes, kiss her.

If she says, "Maybe," ''Why?", "What do you mean" or "I donno" it means she does, but is shy about it. Reply with a gleam in your eye, "Let's find out..." *kiss*

Remember to caress the back of her neck to show you mean business.

If she says no, you reply, "Well I didn't say you could, it just looked like you had something on your mind." (Don't ask "Why not?" This shows low self-esteem.)
If she says, "not yet" or "not here" it means she is open to it but there is a logistical issue. Perhaps her friends are nearby, or she needs more gaming first. Say, "I understand," and continue gaming her.

Does it seem as if most of these lines involve asking her for permission in order to kiss her? Is that wimpy? They are just considerations. We've found that just going for the kiss without indicating your intentions can sometimes lead to embarrassment — more than her saying just saying no.

When she says no, that is much easier to save face from than the situation where you try to kiss her and she moves away.

PhenomenalDesigns · « **Reply #28 on:** August 25, 2009, 04:33:26 PM »

So today, near the end, i kissed her, then we started kissing each other for a bit, no tongue or anything. But wow i suck at kissing, seriously, I said "I know, im a terrible kisser", she said, "I can tell, want me to teach you?" then she kissed me agian, then agian, teaching me how to do it O:

But i feel a bit like i :censored:ed up everything, i dont know, today was really good till i got home, realised i :censored:ed up, my almost brand new pc broke, im already sorta in debt, and i scraped my wrist on a heatsink today and its really painful and now it looks like i cut myself

DarkShot · « **Reply #29 on:** August 25, 2009, 04:44:03 PM »

Props dude. You're making headway.

Hear me out, I'm going through relationship stuff as well, and the best thing to do is not regret if you mess up. As for the wrist, wear a long sleeve shirt.

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Author Topic: My first proper date? What should i do? (Read 7363 times)